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One: we don't know the size of their dick. Two: we don't know if they are impotent.
I'm going to define an impotent male as someone who because of surgery, medication, or age can't get hard enough to have sex with a woman. It seems to me that excessive pornography consumption can render a man impotent as well, and might be included in that definition. Also, it seems to me that men who use Viagra products might be in the impotent category too. I'd love to hear what others think.
I've already posted a link which provides some history on the ways women have been, maligned, abused, tortured and killed in order to prop up a facade that will protect male impotency. What I'd like to see are some graphs or studies about the ratios of impotent men within todays society. Wouldn't it be nice to know ,that based on your location, you could expect that out of every five males you meet, 3 of them are probably impotent? I can't help but think that data exists out there for the number of fertile females in any given locale. Does the rise in Viagra use coincide with increased misogny? Is anti-abortion rhetoric influenced by impotent males?I believe it's possible we are living in a time of unprecedented male impotency but I have no evidence to prove that except my own experiences.
Does anyone have any thoughts, strategies, or experiences which can help women identify impotent males before they hurt us or use us for ego gratification?
I plan to add another post about my experiences with impotent men.
"No one is more arrogant toward women, more aggressive or scornful, than the man who is anxious about his virility." -Simone De Beauvoir
A question that bugs me here, if most women don't orgasm from piv sex why are we even bothered with men's penis size and their ability to perform ?
In 2002, a meta-analysis of 23 erectile dysfunction studies from Europe, the USA, Asia, and Australia reported consistent ED rates of 2% in men under 40.
By 2010, a Brazilian study of men 18-40 reported ED rates of 35%.
In 2011, ED rates in young Europeans, 18-40, ranged from 14-28%.
In 2015, An Irish Times poll asked thousands of readers about ED, and the number of men 24-34 with issues was 28%.
In 2016, a study on Canadian adolescents showed that 45.3% admitted to problems in erectile functioning.
In 2018: 37% of male porn stars, ages 20-29, had moderate to severe erectile dysfunction.
There are stats out there, I will try to find the actual numbers, in regards to P.I.E.D. The number has skyrocketed in the last 20 years.
Excellent and unique post. I agree with you that we're living in a time of unprecedented impotency (although that's hard to know too, given the apparent lack of stats). The number of comparitively young men I've encountered who can't get it up and keep it up, or who can ONLY get it up with manual stimulation is shocking. But these same men will go on and have children with women so I guess there's a lot of manual stimulation by women going on in the world. I refuse. If a man under the age of 60 can't get a natural erection on his own, no thank you.
I think this generation of men are growing more more impotent.
I’m 32 and the males I’ve been with (just a few) they worked ok. My last relationship with a 31 bald scrote was shameful because he couldn’t get hard enough. We tried 4 times. He said it was “anxiety”.
He would also look away when trying and close his eyes.
I noticed there was something wrong when he would NEVER get hard and we hard kissed or during preliminary. He was always always soft. The only way for him to get hard was with oral.
Then another friend of mine said she tried with a guy who didn’t get hard either and tried to penetrate with his dick half soft. I think it’s becoming more and more common.
I tried to check size/hardness with this last relationship I had but he would never get hard during kissing so I couldn’t know.
I would also like to know if someone has any tips on how to find that out before. I wasted 4 months of my life.
Is there a pinned post on going over bases? That would cover your question.
Basically there should be a period when you are dating exclusively (you are bf and gf), but you are not having sex yet. It's easier to judge if you like his kissing and making out, etc and whether he gets hard every time. Then you will see how his penis looks, if it stays hard, no reason to keep dating someone if you don't like his limp pinkie.
Viagra = impotent