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I’ve noticed that men tend to be interested in, treat well, fear and constantly pursuse these kinds of women:
1) Women who reject them
2) Women who don’t like them
3) Women who keep them on their toes
4) Women who are drama-filled/unstable (i.e. women with personality disorders)
5) Women who cheat on them (many times, repeatedly)
etc.
Basically, women who aren't the best matches for these men seem to get the most attention and in many cases, better treatment than women that are the opposite, i.e.:
1) Women who are interested and would be a good fit
2) Women who like them
3) Women who are transparent and not into playing games
4) Women that are stable
5) Loyal women who would never cheat
etc.
Women who are toxic seem to get men that chase after them and are willing to do whatever it takes to be with them, while women who are deserving of decent men, get the most toxic, vile type of men the world has to offer.
Why is this? It's something I can't fully understand. I wish toxic people would be put together and sent to another planet while stable, decent people were paired off.
What does everyone think? Have you noticed this?
Your premise is wrong. LV men pursue LV women in tandem w HV women. No HV man will be making a fool of himself after being rejected, or mistreated. Acknowledge that you're observing LV behavior and suddenly you will see your world w options that you don't have to engage w
First, men are capable of pickme-isms, desperate for the attention and status of a woman despite being mistreated. Second, I've found through experience it's usually both of them who are toxic, you're just only getting one side of the story and it's his side. Always be wary of men who complain publicly and loudly about the way the women they treat them. Notice how they don't get the same type of pushback and victim blaming the way women do when we speak up. It benefits men to constantly paint us in a bad light.
Unresolved childhood trauma= Toxic relationships.
I've seen the guys in relationships with the women you describe.. And they're super low value but LOVE to talk the talk!! They just know what to say publicly to make them look like angels but they love the drama just as much.
Two words: intermittent reinforcement. It's extremely addictive and the basis of mean girls/bad boys charm (as well as of other addictions like gambling). They know how to use it to their advantage, whether conciously or not.
They always want what they can't have. The minute any hard-to- get woman changes her mind and becomes interested in them or shows them any true love and affection, those boys would be gone baby gone. Men are projecting when they say women love men who treat them like shit. It's the other way around. Your observation about keeping them on their toes is dead on accurate.
I have seen this a lot. When you, a stable, honest woman wants nothing to do with them, they go to great lengths to try to convince you that you are not giving them a fair chance. Some aggressively cock block. If you live in a small community or they share your social circle, dare I say they are very good at screwing up your chances with someone better in ways that are hard to uncover. When I start dating someone then I start hearing strange rumors about me in our social circles. Rumors that have no foundation in reality, I have learned the hard way that one of these kinds of men is usually the source.
You noticed something about LVM*.
LVM want what they think they deserve. For them, being with decent person is exhausting because they have to put on front of not being a terrible human being.
It's because those men are LV/NVM.
This is honestly at least 90% or more of the dynamics that happen between the sexes in the manosphere, both the white and non white circles. Hope this answers your question! 😂
To be fair, keeping a man on his toes is HV behaviour in my book. Does this make me high maintenance. probably. Is this intentional, no. I just am transparent in what I want and what I will tolerate. I have boundaries, goals and standards for my man to adhere to. by the same token, I am open to hearing his input and same wants and needs. Should he always feel comfortable and safe? That’s not my problem. I am transparent when he has earned my transparency (ie put a ring on my finger and invested to my satisfaction) that is when I become transparent and make sacrifices for the good of our relationship. Before then he had not earned the right to my utter transparency and allegiance.