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Ladies, how do we feel about men who went to a single-sex school (especially catholic schools)?
I don't know if that's true, but I've heard that their parents sent them to a single-sex school, because they don't want them to get a girl pregnant and because they displayed signs of being "effeminate". So they think single-sex schools will make them "manlier".
I've heard it doesn't make them "manlier", it's quite the opposite actually. The majority of them seem to fool around with each other and learn to hate women even more than the average co-ed school guy, because they were not exposed to people of the opposite sex. That makes it even more difficult for them to see us as equals.
It also seems like they would sacrifice their family for their "brotherhood". So their "brotherhood" will always be their number one priority. Oh and they are usually obsessed with having sons.
So is it safe to assume, that the majority of them are closeted queer guys, that like to hide behind toxic masculinity and just want to date women because they want to fit in?
What are your experiences with these guys?
I'm not a fan of single sex schools in general. I think girls who went there tend to idealize men - which is dangerous - and boys who went there tend to objectify women- which is more dangerous - even more than people who went to co-ed schools. Not growing up with the opposite sex as peers just causes you to buy into unrealistic stereotypes because you have no real people to compare them to, especially if you don't have siblings or cousins of the opposite sex you see often and grow up with. And regarding sex I can just say that all the girls I know who went to a single sex catholic school lost their virginity waaaay earlier than me and the girls I know who went to co-ed schools on average and there were pretty much constant hookups and relationships with the boys who went to the all-boys counterpart. Maybe the "forbidden" part just made more interesting to them, while we were still in the "boys are disgusting" phase because we saw them dick around in class every day.
There are classes where separation by sex makes sense (especially sports) of course.
When it comes to education I’ve heard boys tend to get better grades at co-Ed schools and girls tend to get better grades at single sex schools.
Im not sure if a man who went to an all boys school is going to be “in the closet” as I don’t think going to a particular school can determine his sexuality obviously there are gay men who went to single sex schools but they would be gay no matter the school he went to.
I know we don’t want to get into lavender marriages but I think there’s other ways to Vet if you’re being used.
calling all men homosexuals from going to a particular school sounds so homophobic to me.
I don't think there's a direct correlation. Most men you will meet in your life have likely gone to co-ed schools. And most of them aren't high-value. Boys' boarding schools can and does produce high value men. So does co-ed schools, it depends on a lot of other factors I feel.
I'd like to chime in here and say that, I absolutely agree with the fooling around thing. I know way too many men like that, including my male cousins, who were educated in such schools and now, display signs of being gay. They all are or want to be in a lavender relationship, to avoid coming out of the closet, ever, in fear of how their conservative parents might react.
I have found them to be more inexperienced with women, and hence more keen to impress/be gentlemanly. Obviously, it varies. A LVM is a LVM whatever type of school he went to, but if the guy happens to be a HVM, having been to a same-sex school can seem to make them value the company of women more.
+1 to boys only school grads not having first hand experiences with girls being smarter than them
Depends if it was a boarding school or a regular living at home and going to school situation. Boarding school is a red flag. Children are often molested at boarding schools.
Nothing against it. I personally attended a single-sex institution for a part of my education.
Here are some interesting TikToks about single-sex schools:
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