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I've noticed how certain universities (e.g. Ivy League and Oxbridge unis) have a dispoportinate number of students from wealthy backgrounds. Meanwhile, some unis have students mostly from non-wealthy backgrounds. While it's true that being wealthy =/= being HV, I would rather be with a wealthier guy given how non-wealthy men can be just as LV or even more LV than their wealthier counterparts.
Should we pick unis based on the type of guy we're into? It can be hard to meet men if you're looking for a wealthy partner yet the uni you ended up in has predominantly students from non-wealthy backgrounds (and the very few wealthy students tend to only date each other).
the whole FDS is about being female focused, not picking places and following men to universities. It's a troll post.
FDS is about decentering men from our lives. We put all that energy we used to put into men, into leveling up ourselves. I suppose you can put yourself in the vicinity of wealthier men. But like someone else said, it's their parents money. Not theirs. They haven't worked for anything for themselves yet. And many of these trust fund babies never do. They perpetually live off their parents money. Also, we don't chase men. Men chase us.
It's their parents' money. Any guy who relies on his parents for money is not ok to date.
Also, no, please do not do this. I hope this is a troll because if a real woman were asking this question in the year 2023 I would be saddened.
Honestly I would suggest going to an all-women university.
Absolutely not. Go to university to do what you want and go to the university right for you.
In the next few years of your life, you should focus on your study and career and nothing else. At your age, men are a useless distraction from what really matters.
If you are willing to base your life decisions on meeting an hypotethical male now, how are you gonna keep your independence when you have an actual relationship? Or if you fall in love? Because it gets WAY harder then. Are you gonna accomodate your schedule over your rich boyfriend's one because "you like them both equally?".
I would reccomend that you refrain from dating until you know how to choose a path based on your own identity, needs and likes, in a way that's completely unrelated to men. Men cannot be your identity. Because if they are, once they cheat, lie and abuse, you will gaslight yourself into staying with them to preserve that identity. And if you do walk away, you will lose that identity and will have to start from scratch and it will waste years of your life. Imprint these words in your psyche: What you build around men is NEVER TRULY YOURS. I want you to truly understand this, because so many women have LOST THEIR LIVES living in the delusion of building their identity and lives around men. We are offering you an alternative here to this path that we all know all too well.
Fds isn't just high standards and securing a provider. Those things are useless if you are planning your life like a high maintanance pickme. A pickme who's high maintanance is STILL a pickme. Posts like yours are what makes me think that sometimes we are discussing certain things too much on here to the detriment of others and as a result not getting the right message across to young women. Fds is about preserving your life, energy, time, resources from being stolen away by men. The only way to do this is by avoiding to build your life around them, and I hope this answers your question.
This post is a troll this can’t be real lol
Maybe worry less about guys, and focus more on the point of attending university, which is to get an education to set you up for your future. Unless you're more concerned about getting a man than you are about your future. Which, in that case, good luck to you, because that never ends well.
Never assume that a guy who has money (or whose parents have money) will be more generous toward you or more hard-working. Wealth is usually inversely correlated with generosity. Also, if you aren’t wealthy yourself, these “elite” environments can also feel uncomfortable or alienating, as other students look down on you for not having a trust fund or piles of disposable income.
My recommendation is to visit all universities you’re considering, and choose the one that is best suited for your desired career path, location, tuition, social atmosphere, and generally where you think you can be most successful in your academic life. Don’t optimize for getting a “Mrs” degree and marry some moneyed guy at the expense of your own education and future opportunities.
No
Really wealthy men, like rich men, will always marry within their circle. They will of course cheat on their also rich wives but never settle for a woman who won't benefit the family by bringing financial assets to the table.
What's with all these male-centering posts lately? It’s good to have new people on the forum, but please read the handbook and lurk for a while before posting. Go to the university that has the program you like. If you like them both, pick the one that looks better on a resume. If that still doesn’t narrow it down, pick the one where you can make better professional connections. Once you’ve gotten those things squared away, base your decision on location or what’s important to you: sports, arts scene, social clubs, greek life, etc. Men should be at the bottom of your list, and the relative wealth of the men shouldn’t even be considered (because all college students are poor af).
It depends on your goals, but overall, I don't think it's a good idea. These 'elite' universities are not what most people think. I went to one (not for men), and it was full of mediocre and low-value people who were just there because their parents told them so. The education wasn't top-notch either as the place was full of pretentious idiots. Men from wealthy families also want a woman from a similar background, they're the biggest golddiggers ever, so if you're not from such bg, you'll be overlooked unless you look like a supermodel or something, but even then, you'll most likely still have to put up with a LVM as these rich brat colleges are full of them. So, I'd say it's better to focus on the educational program and compare the universities based on your career goals, talents, skills, interests, etc., you'll find better men after graduation, many high-value people don't even go to 'elite' unis.
we should choose univeristies based on how it helps us level up our career.
are you aware of campus rape? it happens more than you'd expect. if you want to choose a uni based of it's male students, choose one with the lower rapists to non-rapists ratio.
Do you mean like date r***e rates and frat deaths and stuff? Then yeah, pick the lower one.