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ok he already text me after an hour I posted this lol if they wanted they would (even if such a silly mesage)
We had a date last night, and he was so sweet with me - as usual. He told me he missed me because we hadn't hung out for 4 days, lol. Everything is going fine; we had our first vacation and met my in-laws last week. He usually initiates contact, but today he just sent me a meme on Instagram (we do this every day). However, today he didn't send me a WhatsApp message asking, "Hi, how did you sleep? How was your day?" like he does every day. And lately, I've been reading a lot about how 'he is supposed to like you way much more than I do' and that true love is for our family and girlfriends. It stuck with me. I read that men don't tend to love in a romantic way AS MUCH AS WE DO. And I'm a woman who 'loves too much.'
Today,I feel like sending him a message, and I wanted to know your opinions. He is doing everything well, but I know I already show and share way more affection than him. This is the first time in 6 months that I'm giving us ""some space"" - because it's 7pm and we didn't talk. I've also read a lot about 'Let Him Miss You.' I think we are constantly in touch in one way or another, so I think it would be nice not to send him a message and let him 'miss me' a little more. I know this might be overthinking, but I'm a newbie, and I want to do things better this time. Sorry for my english
"we had our first vacation and met my in-laws"
If you and this man are not married, his parents are NOT your in-laws.
I think this statement says everything about your relationship with him. You are entirely too invested in a relationship that he sounds like he doesn't really care about. Already, he's breadcrumbing you, doing the bare minimum to keep you around. Is this the kind of relationship/marriage you want?
I'm going to be blunt. He sounds like he doesn't give a shit about you, and before you waste more precious months/years with him, you need to cut your losses, block and delete, and move on with your life.
If you don't believe me, by all means, stay in your situationship. Let us know how it goes in 6 months or a year. I'll bet money things will not have improved by then.
Edit: I apologize for sounding harsh. It sounds like you had a fun time on vacation. But I stand by my original point that if you feel like he’s pulling away, he probably is, and it won’t get better. I’ve felt this way in relationships before, and it never got better.