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So far the person I’m talking to never displayed disrespect. Displayed some interests I have too. I mentioned that I like to drive over the bridge and see the Ocean and the sunset and he called that “Romantic” I raised some eyebrows because I don’t find sight seeing romantic, It’s just a cost less activity to enjoy the sacred side of nature. I shrugged it off assuming nothing of it.
But he mentioned he loves to share his life with me and have a walk eating Ice cream. Sorry but that really made the mood die down, If I was in his shoes and wanted a person to date me I would offer more than a walk. I would organise a dinner picnic at the beach And a partnership where we lift each other up, I take care of you, you take care of me.
He also has no desire to keep going. He failed for the drivers license theory exam and never tried again. I failed once and tried again and I got it. I failed for the drivers license exam 2 times and the third time I passed. Giving up is something ill never do. My mantra is victory or keep going. And I notice he doesn’t have that fire within. I have a feeling ill end up with a man ill need to support while I have to settle for crumbs. Walks are a big no especially when you are open to share your life with someone but I do wonder am I doing the right thing by moving on, one thing I’ve learned from FDS is to never explain what you look for in a man and just observe.
The second paragraph of your post is enough reason for you to block, delete him and move on. We don't need men who have no drive to move forward and improve themselves in our lives.
He will drain you and your energy gradually, turning you into a shell similar to him. Don't let your ambitious self get dampened, let him go.
His core values don't match yours concerning the drivers test, and it will be a relationship killer down the line so its better to cut him off now. That also gives me the ick. This alone is enough to prove you're not compatible
The romantic thing and walking down the beach is probably him liking the fantasy version he has of you in his head vs. who you are at face value. Which is also a problematic thing to not be grounded, because the real person won't match the fantasy version we have. Then we get frustrated with that person for not being like the fantasy person we thought they were
If the answer isn't fuck yes, then the answer is fuck no.
You've correctly identified that he's lazy.
That doesn't match your personality and your values, so next him. Men should be ambitious and driven, not giving up on a driving test. That's pathetic
abundance mindset!
time to move forward.
Move on
I'm the same way and I would never be attracted to a man who gives up easily in life. I could never trust him or have any faith in him, especially when the going in life gets rough. I need someone strong like myself. So do you.
Block + move on.
Definitely do not go any further with dating this man that has no driver's license. That is ridiculous. Even if he is physically attractive, just no. do you want to be responsible for driving him and the kids around?
Yes