Why do all these scrotes have atraveling obsession? I work more than full-time and I go on a foreign holiday once a year. I hate flying and going through customs, and I love comfort and luxury. If I were to travel more, I'd not be able to dine out so often,to buy nice clothes, etc. Obviously I visit other places close to home, but I have no need to go backpacking somewhere Also, in my thirties, I have lost the restlessness I had as a student and am perfectly fine staying home.
I feel like the travel also signals that they are bored easily, have no inner world and need to be constantly entertained, and that they will probably never commit. Thoughts?
I love to travel and hate staying at home and I've been with guys that only wanted to stay at home (cause they're broke and have to act like they give a shit about me in public) but men do not do things for the same reasons women do. At this rate, men doing ANYTHING is a red flag because it's always for nefarious reasons.
I just assume all men are shady until proven innocent, regardless of what they're doing. Makes things easier.
But you might notice a lot of guys who like to travel simply because men like making women feel othered, uncomfortable, and left out. Opposing, arguing and conquering is flirting to them, so I wouldn't pay any mind to their interests.
You know how many men have ever offered me gourmet chocolate? Absolutely 0, but they all have plenty of drugs, booze and cigarettes to give me (and I don't partake in any of that 🙃).