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Why do all these scrotes have atraveling obsession? I work more than full-time and I go on a foreign holiday once a year. I hate flying and going through customs, and I love comfort and luxury. If I were to travel more, I'd not be able to dine out so often,to buy nice clothes, etc. Obviously I visit other places close to home, but I have no need to go backpacking somewhere Also, in my thirties, I have lost the restlessness I had as a student and am perfectly fine staying home.
I feel like the travel also signals that they are bored easily, have no inner world and need to be constantly entertained, and that they will probably never commit. Thoughts?
I think this is really accurate. Instead of building a full and interesting life at home (which would take effort and commitment) many of these men are just constantly chasing the next thrill. Their travels also usually consist of drinking, eating, being lazy and creeping on girls in various countries and they rarely show an actual interest in the cultures they are visiting (beyond "Is the beer cheap and are the girls pretty?"...).
I enjoy travelling and try to take two nice trips a year if I can but I actually do stuff at my destination and don't just drink, hang out in bars and lie on the beach all day. I'd be bored out of my mind and I don't need to visit another country for that.
I think a lot of those men are trying to avoid adult responsibilities like getting a job and paying bills. They're also very short-sighted because if you spend your entire 20s travelling and then decide you want to get a job when you're in your 30s, you're going to be competing against people who have spent their entire 20s working while you have no work experience at all. These kinds of men also tend to be leeches. They leech from their family and they also leech off friends and girlfriends. I have a cousin who is this kind of man and I avoid him like the plague because he's always looking for handouts.
I mostly agree. I’d say this definitely applies to men who constantly “pleasure travel” and I personally believe those men are a walking red flag. They usually go to foreign countries to prey on vulnerable impoverished women and cheat on their gfs/wives. They’re also usually very financially irresponsible, immature, and impulsive as most of them are traveling beyond their means. It’s also a sign to me of a fear of commitment as they can never settle down and relax to build a real life or legacy with a woman.
I just dumped a scrote like this. He’s pushing 40 and I found out he lives with his parents so he can afford to take extravagant vacations. This man was addicted to social media and maintaining a certain image. Basically all of this was to flex for Instagram. He’d rent luxury cars and stay in expensive hotels to post online and dupe women into believing he had money. Meanwhile he’s living with his parents, working in retail, financially irresponsible and emotionally immature. Thank goodness I dodged that bullet.
I love to travel and hate staying at home and I've been with guys that only wanted to stay at home (cause they're broke and have to act like they give a shit about me in public) but men do not do things for the same reasons women do. At this rate, men doing ANYTHING is a red flag because it's always for nefarious reasons.
I just assume all men are shady until proven innocent, regardless of what they're doing. Makes things easier.
But you might notice a lot of guys who like to travel simply because men like making women feel othered, uncomfortable, and left out. Opposing, arguing and conquering is flirting to them, so I wouldn't pay any mind to their interests.
You know how many men have ever offered me gourmet chocolate? Absolutely 0, but they all have plenty of drugs, booze and cigarettes to give me (and I don't partake in any of that 🙃).