Hi guys, I was a long time user of the FDS reddits, first time on here. I am looking for resources that go beyond the basic seduction/ flirting techniques, I'm looking for how to use more psychological, I dare say manipulative ways to get a guy to eat out my hand and do exactly as I want. There used to be a fds Reddit for dark triad women, those type of resources would be useful. I do not have bad intentions, nor am I a dark triad personality, I just want to have an upper hand on a man always. I have a health condition that affects my life and makes me feel I could be disposable to men as I can't do everything a healthy woman can. I do not trust men, I was badly used by my father and brother and I will never allow that again. Any resources or points in the right direction would be much appreciated.
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No, FDS really doesn't need to explore dark triad tactics. LV behavior is LV regardless of if it's a man or a woman behaving badly. If you want to behave LV then r/dating has everything you need already- don't bring that shit here.
You sound like you need to process and heal from your issues til you've built up your confidence. Confidence isn't made by dating/external validation
It sounds like you shouldn't date at the moment.
I suggest reading Gone Girl by Gillian Flynn to fulfill your fantasy needs and going to therapy.
I'm in the same boat as you, I know how much it hurts and that you want to get back at men. However this approach will only hurt you more, because it won't attract hvm to you but rather low value manipulative scrotes. They will be drawn to that negative energy of yours. It's better to heal and find a partner who respects you, loves and and values you. Healthy relationships don't revolve around power.
I don’t think there was ever an officially FDS-affiliated subreddit like that (even if they mentioned being FDS-friendly), since we don’t really take that approach here. There is r/diabla and r/vanitas (i think one of those has its own forum now, i don’t remember which). They might have what you’re looking for.
I understand your question, and wish you had gotten some supportive answers here. Unfortunately, I don’t know the answers either. Hope you are feeling well despite your health condition that affects your life. You are wise not to immediately trust men after the way the men in your family and their enablers treated you - I just want to validate that those of us with a family abuse history are more susceptible to predation. Hugs and best wishes to you.