The amount of men who complain about their exes being crazy are exaggerating, and I'm sitting here with 2 guys who after are only 4 dates each, both turned out to be on the war path and psychologically damaged. Instead of going away like normal people, both men have decided to go out of their way to befriend my friends, make up stories about me, and try to isolate me.
What can I do about this situation? I have blocked both men and warned a couple of people about them.
How did he get access to your friends? Did you add them to your social media? Men who I dated don't get to know who my friends are for at least a year.
ok, well we all recognize that scrotes are projecting when they say their exes are "crazy." (just so we're clear)
this looks like a situation for:
🦊grey rocking
🦊block + delete
🦊NO CONTACT
🦊ABSOLUTELY NO CONTACT
🦊DO NOT keep tabs on these scrotes
delete your social media accounts if you have to, whatever it takes for No Contact.
if they are trying to isolate you in a dark alleyway or something, then you need to alert the police and avoid being alone out in public.
Are they still sending you messages? Try to save receipts of their behaviors and report this to the local authorities. As much as I don't trust the police for the most part when it comes to domestic violence, it's good to leave a paper trail behind.
Any friend who believes those scrotes have shown themselves to you that they aren't your true friend. You know what to do with that one, hopefully. The real friends will take your word immediately over those exes, and will defend your honor. So, try not to worry about this.
Be careful when you are out alone. Try to stay with a friend or a family member for maybe a couple of months if the exes know where you live, to let things cool off and die down.
Yikes! Hope you're ok now and they've blown off.
I've had creeps stalk me as well, after only 1 or 2 dates. Men are dangerous.