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I am a member of the "are we dating the same guy" in couple cities and states near me. I notices most of the women in these subs are not just pick men but super low value. If any of these women were men I would be calling them scrote. For example, many of these women are "friends" with their exes and consider it to be a "green flag" (lol @ this). They watches porn and some even keep sexy pictures from their exes so they think it's perfectly fine for a man to do so. They would date man much older than they are and even call women "shallow" for not wanting to date bald, fat men with mental or physical disabilities.
There are women who themselves follow thirstraps on instrageam and of course sees no issue with men doing the same. I once said it's a red flag for me and there are women called me "jaded." There are also women who "proudly" states that they "trust" their husband and they are so secure that they don't mind if their husband is drooling over random women's ass online. Not to mention, many of these women are relatively attractive dating men who look worse than a forest grump and are actually "proud" of it. They defend "only fans," "porn," and even cuddling with "guy best friends." I honestly would be disgusted to date these women if I were a guy.
I can totally see why some men are also jaded by dating and feels they can't trust or respect women. I know a lot of these men are hypocrites with Madonna/Whore complex as most men are like that, but even good guys would feel disgusted by these women. I joined these groups to protect myself but I feel disturbed by the women in there.
Some women can never be saved. We can’t help everyone. When I see that shit I tell myself yikes and thank god I found FDS.
Yes I agree with you. I’m part of the group for my city, and it’s crazy how so many of them lack self awareness. The other weird thing is how they egg each other on despite being full of red flags.
I certainly don’t agree with scrotes, but if you present yourself in a certain way there are people out there who will exploit and take advantage of you.
Yeeeeeeeeep. But you have to learn you can't save everyone, no matter how hard you try.
I'm a member of 4 of those groups and two Girl, Run! groups for my dateable area. I noticed several years ago that the (admittedly pickme-ish) advice given was ABSOLUTELY DISAPPOINTING and sometimes downright dangerous and I and others who pointed out the problems and offered better advice would get totally dogpiled on. So for a while I would just message the lady in question and tell her what I thought as kindly and politely as I could, and leave it up to her to do what she will with the info.
But lately the posts I am seeing a lot more FDS type advice come to the fore and get liked/loved and I am LIVING FOR IT. I've even made a couple acquaintances (not friends yet, I am always wary of people I meet off the web even on FB) by helping out running background checks, giving advice and opinions, posting for people that are scared to do it themselves, and having help by like minded ladies. It gives me hope for the future, even if I may not be the one to benefit from it.
Almost all the men that get posted to these kind of pages look really ugly. A lot of them also have red flags galore and you just wonder what do you even see in this guy??? Like really obvious red flags like shirtless pictures, open to short term relationships, looking for fun, badly taken selfies etc.
It's a shame because those groups seem so good on paper, like they'd be a powerful resource to save ourselves more heartache or wasted time with cheaters. Alas though, my groups are also full of huge pickmes that really try to drag you down and standard shame and their mods do nothing about it even when flagged.
I got hit on by a guy while I was at work though - gave me his number, made me text him while I was working (I was pressured and alone so I didn't say no for my own safety reasons) and then later he texted asking me out again. I screenshotted it and used one of the AWDTSG groups. My vibe from him from the first time I encountered him at work months ago was that he played the whole field and I was right. Turns out there were THREE women who he's all been sleeping with (and he was hoping to add me to his roster) so I sent them all the screenshot and calmly let them know what happened.
Sadly all of them used the same pickme lines "well we aren't officially dating" (even though they'd all been sleeping together for months and one chick he was talking about moving in with) and "that's just how guys are" and "I already knew" blah blah. I was appalled and shocked at how little they cared, especially since they're actively in the groups and the group held its purpose.
I’ve been noticing this about my local AWDTSG page too except the women aren’t usually too nasty themselves but 9/10 it’s some disgusting toad they’re posting about. It bothers me how much women let men take from us and I feel conflicted knowing I had to grow out of and consciously rid myself of my pickme traits. I can’t really judge them too much but it’s hard to watch. I left 2/3 of the local pages and am thinking of getting off of the other one. Thankfully there are women who nicely talk sense to them but some of them I want to shake and ask why the fuck they’re allowing some Elmer Fudd looking dude to keep messing with them.
I'm sorry, I laugh reacted because of frankness and tone of your post. I 100% agree with you.
I think these AWDTSG groups are the perfect example of how women are fractured as a class. See, these libfems understand how we need single sex spaces, yet the other facts about men haven't truly sunk in. It's like they understand there's a class war but think they're on the sidelines.
Why are they in a group like that if they're so happy with their men?
A lot of these women are pick mes. I mean if you see the posts of the men they are dating or talking to is 🤢 🤮 … all the red flags in their profiles or in the first time they chatted with this person. However, a lot of women are waking up and are posting more FDS values because they have been burnt many times probably.
Those types of groups had a lot better comments before radio, news articles, and podcasts started blasting their existence everywhere for the pickme normie crowd to get curious and show up to throw in their worthless 2 cents. In my regions group it went from FDS style advice to a bunch of dummies who don't understand why extremely scrotey time-wasting behavior isn't okay. And far too many of them get mad if you're "too mean" to men, they think it gives them Good Girl Points to defend the indefensible.
Lol I've been kicked out of all 3 of those groups so I feel ya.
This is a pick-mes response and my response underneath. This is from a post about a woman who asked regarding a French guy who told her it's customary to split the check in France and wanted to know if it was bullshit. A lot of them said yes, but of course some women said no.
I'm not responding to her anymore because you can't reason with women like this. Let her find out the hard way.
Also, who's downvoting this?