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I have been talking to this guy for a few weeks and I virtually know nothing about him. Whenever I ask a question, he never answers, but asks me two more. I called him out on it today and he’s answered some of them but they were all too general and I still knew nothing about him.
All I know is that this guy is single since I met him through a mutual girl friend who’s his neighbour.
Also, I have noticed this thing where he sets his phone so he doesn’t leave people on “read”. So on WhatsApp you won’t see the blue check marks and it looks like he hasn’t got around to reading your texts. I asked him about that, and he reassured me that he’ll never leave me on read, but he’s just busy. My question is, why does he choose to have that option? It’s really uncommon for people around me to do this. I’ve only met one girl who did this and it was really shady of her. What’s the male pov for doing this?
I’m starting to think that he may be more calculating then he lets on.
Yeah, ALL men are very calculating but GREAT at pretending like they're clueless. Ultimately, every man's game is to get our attention and it seems to be working if you're scratching your head over his weird, nonsensical tactics. Sounds like a shady dude. Next.
GIRL, 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
You've been talking to him for a few WEEKS and he hasn't asked you out or anything? Drop him.
You know nothing about him but he knows a lot about you and doesn't give a straight answer? Yikes. DROP HIM. He's fishing for info to about you so he can manipulate you better.
He changed his Whatsapp settings so you cannot tell if he read your message or not? LMAO. DROP HIM. He did this on purpose.
Oh you sweet summer child. HE LIED. IT'S SO OBVIOUS.
Ummm yeah it's because he's shady too. He does this because he wants to. It benefits him. Simple as that.
I've done this whole chat-pen pal thing with guys a million times and lemme tell ya, it's not worth it. It has ZERO benefits. It will never get better. It will NEVER evolve/progress into an actual relationship. He just wants your attention and he's probably married with kids. Little ego strokes here and there. You're literally wasting your precious time with this man.
Do yourself a favour and block him. I can guarantee you that nothing good can come out of this. If you really want to chat with people and connect that way, CHAT WITH WOMEN. Please.
He’s red pilled and trying to get you to chase him. Men these days have nothing better to do other than play video games and jerk off to porn. Wtf is he so busy with that he can’t even reply to a text. Ignore him back and if he doesn’t respond to you. BLOCK. Male entitlement is real and they want you to chase him around just like their mothers did for there entire lives. You are the prize, he should be doing everything he can to show he is worthy to be in your life and worthy to be in a monogamous relationship with. If he wants to play these PUA red pill games he can get the fuck out. He’s over valuing his worth and thinks he’s some prize that you need to chase. The average human male is so pathetic
He's got wife and kids. Why are you even entertaining this thing, get off the table and have some self respect.
If they have checks off, they're sneaking around. Personally only your description of him made me feel annoyed. He has fboy energy.
If you know his full name, Google him for LinkedIn, socials and other info. If you can't find anything, he's hiding shit
RUN
Well, I know for me I turn off the blue checks so I don’t have to see them ignoring/not answering me.