Hey ladies. I know this has been touched on a million times. I started dating a guy who told me he watches porn and I told him this is a red flag for me and also explained to him the neuroscience and how it effects relationships and how he views me, women, etc. I’m still in the vetting stages and he’s very serious about me and getting a chance. He told me he would stop and that this is more important to him. How realistic is that? I feel he’s genuine and serious about it because he knows a real connection is much more important than beating off to randos. I don’t know y’all. I’m still very much weary and don’t want this to resurface if I do give him a chance.
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First: we do not educate men. You just made him more capable of tricking the next woman. Why would you tell him that porn is a red flag?
Second: he’s a pornsick LV scrote. Block and delete. No explanation.
Third: re-read the handbook and do a search for “porn” on this site. You’ll find the same good advice there as the queens here are giving you in the comments.