OLD question

Yes, 100% lazy low-effort. I wouldn't even have responded to a "hey" or "how are you." If a man messages me with that low effort crap, I block and delete.

'What brings you to Hinge?'

The fuck do you THINK brings me to Hinge, smoothbrain? 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

A man who texts this way does not respect you.

I repeat: he does not respect you. Or any woman.

He thinks you are a joke.

Block and delete him yesterday.

Probably not worth responding to, but if you get bored you can troll him just for funsies.

"u kno, just tryn 2 meet sum peeps mayb a bf. y r u?" lol makes the point pretty damn clear

It’s pretty poor. He didn’t even add your name after Hey! He also can’t spell ‘too’. I feel like it’s sloppy and indicates he doesn’t know how to - or doesn’t want to - make an effort for a woman. Why didn’t he ask you a specific question based on your photos or your bio? Because he’s too lazy to look at it properly and reflect on it.

What stood out to me is that you said you were sick, but he kept bothering you. He should have been more sympathetic and said something along the lines of, "I'm so sorry to hear that. I'm sure you're trying to get some rest so I won't bother you anymore tonight, but I would love to hear from you when you're feeling better."

But no. It's always all about them.

Yes, it’s fair. Mixing up to/too bothers me as well, but I can look past that. If someone used “u” or “ur” I’d unmatch. Never had anything close to a good experience with someone who typed like that. I’ve never had a good experience with someone who uses A LOT of emojis either.

I’m good at noticing patterns I guess.

He is really active for a guy on OLD. He asks questions... Not the worst but also not the best.

If you expect any conversations on hinge to look anything better than this, you will be very disappointed. This one’s not even as bad as I’ve seen.

Have you ever met the kind of guy who thinks he'll get positive attention from women if he acts all cutsie like a little kid? Like, these guys think we're want a man to do baby talk at us, and do weird regressive behavior? To be fair, I dont think I've run into one of these since my early 20s, but it's a thing. A very un-sexy, unappealing thing.

It's disturbing and insulting. Why do these moids think I'll date/sleep with a man who acts like a toddler? Um ... *I'm* not a pedophile, sir. *I* am attracted to adults who act like adults. How about you, sir?

When men use too many emojis and juvenile text things I worry they might be one of those guys.

is he's asking what you're looking for-he's not looking for anything serious and don't want to waste time talking (in my OLD experience)

it's annoying, and very common on OLD platforms. i find men are mostly on better behavior when they're texting my number directly, which is a huge risk, i know.