NSFW: Are there men who are ok with giving oral without receiving it?

I feel like, since women are risking kidnapping, assault, unintended pregnancy, higher risk of STDs than men, then its reasonable for a woman to say "no" to anything, anytime.

If a man can give penetration, but decline to receive it from a woman, than a woman can receive oral and decline to give it.

But I'm interested to see everyone else's viewpoint.

They should be doing that just to get it in.

Women have no reason to put penises in our mouths.

Men and women aren't equal. You ever see a female animal lick a male there before sex? Even female chimps don't do oral much. It's usually the males on other males.

If he wants sex, he should be getting you off first clitorally without expecting you to put a big, hard body part in a space not meant for it. Same with anal.

Even the crappy guys I know will give oral without expecting anything back. That's why I always find it strange when I hear about a (hetero) guy who doesn't want to go down on his girlfriend or expect to get someting back. I was under the impression hetero guys just really like doing it.

Absolutely. Even in my darkest pick me days did I find men who would eat me out and expect nothing in return. Don't feel you need to reciprocate or feel guilty if you don't get them off.

Yeah absolutely. My current boyfriend hates recieving oral sex, like thinks it is actively degrading to me and therefore doesn't want it, because he loves me. He loves eating me out via the same thought process.

My ex loved giving oral and I only gave him oral twice. He was pretty good at it. Its not worth the pain and tears and stress that relationship gave me

I think there are men out there that are ok with it.

maybe this is TMI, but most men I've dated I've "received" much more than I give. It's usually not a problem, but I do give back once in a while.

If this is a standard, keep it and don't settle. You can find a man who is ok with it.

yup my ex husband lol

I have probably given head to my fiance about 10 times in 4 years, he never asks for it it’s only when I feel like it (sometimes happens haha). He is appreciative though when I do.

On the other hand he’s very generous. I also don’t ask for it, but he wants to do it pretty much every time.

I've only dated young Gen X men and older millennials and they have all happily provided oral without being prompted and I only had one guy ask for it in return.

Yes. Absolutely.

I can't find any HVM in my area so I occasionally hookup/have FWB with men. Before people come at me, the handbook actually does allow casual relationships in certain limited capacities.

Usually the first 2-9 times I hookup with a guy, I have him perform oral sex and fingering on me and do not give him anything in return. I'm multi-orgasmic, so they usually end up pleasuring me for hours this way. Sometimes he doesn't even take his pants off. Occasionally I'll play with his dick, mostly for me own benefit/curiosity, trying to determine how it would feel inside me. Yes some guys have started whining about 'their turn', but I usually screen for this beforehand. I tell them I'm a passenger princess and I like to receive pleasure over giving it.

Mostly I lose interest in men before I end up having penetrative sex with them. FDS and The High Powered Podcast have shown me the game. While there are guys who are physically dangerous, most guys don't resort to that since most women are delulu and will fall for their manipulative games and word salad. For reference, I mostly date gen Z finance bros. Gen Z guys barely get laid so in my experience, they're just grateful to have a woman in their bed.