I have a friend, who I’ll call A, who loves being brutally honest with guys and just trolling them. She even got banned from a dating app for having a fake profile and trolling men on it.
her dating app profile - 24-year old, interests, hobbies
Matched with a 39-year-old guy - he asked if she was interested in older men, she said no, telling him that older men have beer guts and receding hairline, and that they’re delusional about their level of attractiveness
When she got bored of engaging, just sending “ok” or “ew” to the many men she matched with
One guy who said that women were impossible to understand (in more elaborate term) and to not bother understanding us - she said that women weren’t difficult to understand, he was likely just stupid and lacked empathy 👀
Guy who mentioned a preference for short girls and called her “tiny” - she told him that his height didn’t make up for his personality
To a guy who commented on a woman who got happily divorced from her ex-husband and was now happily married to a woman and having a much nicer and relaxed life - he called them two lonely cat ladies, and she said, lonely as compared to him, who was likely single? And she sent him an article about how women in relationships with other women tend to report higher relationship satisfaction than women in straight relationships with men 💅🏻
She also typically ignores male opinions and comments - for comments and articles, if the author’s male, she’ll many times just skip it, unless in her opinion there’s something of value or the author is vetted
On one hand, I kind of think her spending her time trolling guys isn’t the most valuable use of her time (chiefly the dating apps thing, which was a one-off, though), but on the other hand, a lot of her critiques are on-point and it’s honestly so entertaining lmao
Edit/Update: Because some comments have been accusing her of being a pickme, I just want to clarify some things (which have also been mentioned in the comments below): my post isn’t a description of what she does all of the time. She actually ignores men like 90-95% of the time and focuses on her female friends/connections, aside from the rest of the time she has to interact with men for work or other reasons, or the few occasions where she’ll really let a guy who has been disrespecting women or her with a zinger. Also, it takes maybe 5-6 seconds for her to roast a guy, she isn’t seriously spending so much time on this as some people are assuming. (The dating app saga was literally a one-off that she did for one day.) Also, she says that ignoring men is the best, because nothing quite hurts their ego like it, so 👀
Edit/Update #2 Some guys who had been spouting misogynistic stuff and then got roasted/critiqued by her have actually been humbled and stopped saying those kinds of things to women, so honestly good for her there.
Who is this queen!! Someone has to be dragging these men online, whenever women get the chance they should be humbling these males😂😂😂
I'm sorry to say, but your friend is a pick-me. She still gives men her attention, albeit negative, but men don't care about that, they crave any sort of attention.
I used to have a friend like that who thought she was a "boss girl" or whatnot by bullying men, but in the end, she was so insecure that she secretely seeked male validation and got a kick out of being 'mean' to them. If you are trully unbothered, you don't care about the other sex and are living your best live male free.
she could make much better use of her time. For exemple, she could level up instead pf wasting her energy with random men online. it's ok to not want to date them. but why waste time on dating apps and negative interactions like that? makes no sense to me.