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Hi queens, I posted here almost a week ago of my father screaming at my mother. Since then, he hasn't felt the need to apologize to me either, and I'm not sure if I should be doing something too. When my mom told him that he supposedly wanted to speak to me, he responded saying "I don't have to apologize to her about anything, I was sick" I don't know what to do right now. I've been keeping my head down, not saying anything to him and just focusing on school. This is the worst fight we've had and we've only really mumbled a few words. I'm very upset over this, and I don't want my mother to feel like she's in the middle of this. I'm trying to keep straightforward to not worry her.
I did distance myself from him after the whole thing which isn't the best thing to do, but I really don't want to speak to him either. The way he screamed that night made me feel like he hated everything. What do I do?
My past post:
https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com//forum/ask-fds-public/men-being-sick
Would something like this work?
"Dad, I know you were sick, but that doesn't make it ok to scream at mom and I like that. It's scary, disrespectful and unworthy of you. I believe you have more self-control and love us more than that. Because I'm so shaken up by what happened, it's hard for me to be around you right now. No, you don't have to apologize for the other day, but it would mean a lot to me and go a long way towards repairing the damage."