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Here's the post:
"Hi everyone!
Although I've been in a monogamous heterosexual marriage to Lauren [fake name] for several years , I've decided that I don't feel comfortable with the whole heterosexual label, and I've decided to come out as bisexual. Also, I would consider myself nonbinary because gender is a construct and I've never felt fully on the 'Man' side. Just wanted to add my voice to Team Queer!"
I haven't spoken to my sister her husband's post yet, but I have a feeling that she's totally on board with this, because it gives her the liberal street cred they obviously both desire.
But regardless of your politics, how tf is it appropriate to announce on Facebook that you're sexually attracted to a whole other demographic that doesn't include your wife? Why the fuck does he think this is something the public needs to know when he's supposedly in a monogamous relationship?
Regardless of your sexual orientation, when you're in a monogamous relationship, your partner should treat you like you're the only one in the world for them.
It's like he's being given a free pass to declare himself a shitty, flakey husband under the guise of "queerness." I found it inappropriate, tasteless, and disrespectful toward my sister.
I really don't want to talk to him at the next family gathering.
I always say bi males are double trouble and for a good reason. That's why I don't fuck with these sluts and only strictly would date a man who only likes women! The pain in the ass is already bad enough as it is with STRAIGHT dudes alone, and I don't need more of it, so no thanks.
What this clown did was disrespectful to his wife and I feel sorry for her for such public humiliation. She should leave his gay ass and the scrote can go suck dick without endangering her health.
Do you inform everyone you know every time you have a crush, or you think someone's hot? NO! Because thats youre provate business and no one cares! The need to discuss your sexuality with everyone from your grandma to the neighbor kids is a sickness.
There's no reason why ANYONE in the world has to know he - a man married to a woman - likes dudes. EXCEPT for the fact that he intends to act on it. The subtext of that post was that he will soon be cheating on his wife (if he hasnt done so already), and she may or may not have agreed to being cheated on.
And non binary isnt real. Tell him to shove his pronouns up his ass.
He needs to get dumped severely.
Sounds like he’s preparing a soft landing for himself for when he either abandons his family entirely, by leaving so he can go play with men, or partially, by convincing his wife to turn their relationship into an ‘open’ one. I feel sad for your sister.
I really hate it when people are so desperate to have a coming out story even if there is no story. He's married, he maybe also jacks off to gay porn, so what? And he doesn't feel 100% like a man, sigh. News flash, no one completely identifies with gender stereotypes, every time someone says they're nonbinary they basically say that everyone else is fine with being stereotyped. This guy just wants to be special so bad despite being in a "boring" old heterosexual marriage.
Funny how being "queer" automatically equates to liberal street cred for these two because in the last two years I have come across several gay male conservatives who want to ban abortion rights for women (including gay male couples who themselves have kids they paid for by using surrogates......so they think it's perfectly fair that women be "allowed" to birth kids for them at will but should not be able to decide if we can do it for ourselves). Being a sexual minority =/= liberal.
I feel bad for your sister. Such a public announcement on his part in itself seems like an ad for soliciting hookups. I hope she finds the FDS path sooner rather than later.
Yay, another douchebag who has been secretly gay, but unable to come out of the closet, so he married a woman to give the illusion of straightness, but then the societal climate shifts to where it's more acceptable to come out as gay, so he does, and the wife is brainwashed to be on board with it. :::: Sigh:::
So surface-level and random. It's not even a post written in the context of a self-acceptance journey. Adding a simple rainbow flag to his profile would've sufficed since he doesn't have much to say. You know him better but hope the frivolous nature of his post doesn't extend to his character. Otherwise, he might try to use his sexuality against your sister, to experiment and whatnot. As is the case whenever the opportunity presents itself, men will weaponize any concept and situation in their favour.
"Attention everyone: I have decided that I am not getting enough attention, so I am going to appropriate the struggle of a minority in a bid to get everyone to fawn over me. I also want to be allowed to say misogynistic/homophobic things without consequence."
It's not really anyone's business. Kinda weird.
Yeah it's weird! I don't have a problem with bi men ( I probably wouldn't date a bi man though) but he's probably announcing this because he wants to hook up with men now.
The part that I see more problematic and icky is the NB part. Men who come out as nb are usually doing this before abuse allegations come out. I'd talk to your sister about how he's been treating her or maybe he's not abusing her, maybe hes grooming a child.
Honestly, 99% of the time a man says he's NB it's for these reasons.
Ding ding ding! Another performative libfem who went off the deep end!
POV you are a boring white male who wants to appear special to the public
He is gay period and probably cheated on your sister with men already. So gross.
I think it's fair to say that these labels are meaningless now. I literally saw a post of a guy saying that he is only attracted to biological women, however, considers himself bisexual for a reason I don't remember. He is a douchebag regardless if it is just virtuesignaling--can't have your cake and eat it too.
I wish I could bet money on their marriage dissolving within the next couple of years.
Jesus Christ I’d murder him
I can't stand the term queer. I have co workers I care very much about that still consider it a slur and were called it as an insult because they were gay.