Men who mostly follow women (regular) on instagram.

Yah, I think it’s a sign of desperation.

Wow did we date the same guy? He also could never be alone, so pathetic and obvious he's a narc. He even admitted to being a narc when I called him on it. These abusers have zero shame. I posted a comment below in response to another comment about my experience with a covert narc who did this. I spotted it tho before the third date and blocked him and all his pickmeisha so called female friends (aka the women he planned to cheat on me with) into the year 2090 😂😂 They try and play with me they're playing with fire! I'm from the 305 and NYC and he was just some dumb small town guy, and we don't play with people.

Well done on stalking men on social media before agreeing to meet them. This is something we should all do.

I’d say to follow your instinct, which is telling you something is off about this man. His social media behavior disturbs you. That is all you need to know.

If I were you, I would block and delete. This is only the tip of the iceberg.

Thnx! I learned my lesson very recently! Usually I didn’t pay attention to a man’s social media until after the date and i always got lucky that the men I went on dates with were not into habit of following insta porn models. That is after I met a guy and had this crazy connection. I was happy until I found out his insta was full of strippers, only fans and thirst trap that he tried to justify as “just clicks.” Never again, I am putting myself into that position.

Yah, Imma just say no to the guy.

Yeah I should do that too next time! The covert narc suspected had his on private and didn't add me which was a HUGE red flag. He also had mosty women friends IRL he introduced me to and was testing my boundaries by hugging on then right in front of me while on a so called date. He also mentioned poly. So glad I blocked him into the next dimension lmao. I only wish the worst for guys like that.

Yah, that’s what my gut instinct said. It felt wrong ugh! What the hell is wrong with men. This guy was otherwise good, but had to be a desperate pervert.

That's probably just the tip of the iceberg. It he's into following so many women on Instgram, he probably has sick porn fetishes or think emotionally cheating is ok.

I know this comment is five months old but I came across this post…. I agree 100% with you!!! I think it’s creepy stalker behavior in my opinion as well. My recent ex would tell me that all his woman following were they are friends from HS or childhood, and even admitted to saying that yeah he hasn’t talked to these women in over 10 years but he just wants to follow them because “he likes to see where everyone’s life path went” and “what if they post a job opportunity”. That’s LURKING. I even told him that he just lurks because he hasn’t talked to those women in at least 10 years or maybe 5 years. He said I pervert everything and it’s not like he looking at them sexually. He then accused me of trying to control his life and keep him in a bubble and take away everyone and then isolate him. Like bro what? I’m just questioning why you still follow chicks from ten years ago, you watch their stories, and liked their selfies, vacation pics, daily life pics, and so on. I found it very cringe and not really masculine. It made me feel like he was just another Woman liking his women friends from back in the day. He followed more women childhood friends than men from his past.