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I’m sure many of us have seen the viral video of the girl crying about how her boyfriend dumped her after telling her he wanted to move to Texas to be with his dad. She dropped her friends, job and overall lifestyle and moved to Texas from LA for and with him. She took a hit to her savings making this move….only for her boyfriend to go on a family holiday, return from it, sit her down and hand her a note saying that they’re not compatible and should break up. He then proceeds to move to another state to be with his mother, leaving her in the new place she moved into with him. He says this after 3 years of being together and her saying she’d move for him. He couldn’t even open his own mouth to end things with her; he had to hand her a note. He didn’t think to end things with her much earlier or at least before she overhauled her life for him. Yup, that’s how cowardly men are. He clearly didn’t want to be with her and never did (we know men, she was never his dream girl. She was “Miss Right Now) and was too cowardly to tell her. Why? Because she was giving him lots of benefits of course and he wasn’t going to miss out on those 😒
Men’s cowardliness is ever present and I experienced it this evening. I dashed out to a supermarket near my house and as I was walking by a guy on a bench who didn’t look homeless and honestly looked like he was trying his luck to see how much money he could make. As I walked past him, he asked me for money and I ignored him, looking straigh on, only to pass him and hear him call me a “bitch”. I turned around, glared at him and asked “What did you say?” He started looking around him and didn’t look at me, pretending he didn’t know who said it. Before walking away, I said “I thought so” and walked on. I was very tempted to insult him back but thought to not bother. He was proud enough to call me a bitch but the minute I refused to let it go and challenged him, he was suddenly mute. I only said somehthing because people were passing by. I wouldn’t have bothered if I was on my own because men are crazy and I was not trying to be attacked.
Has anyone experienced something similar before? Have you seen the video of the girl I’m talking about? I’d love to hear your thoughts.
I saw that video, very heartbreaking. It reminded me of when I was moving across the country. My FedEx guy whom I was cordial with said, "You're not moving for a man, are you? Don't ever move for a man!" Even he knew. (I was moving for a job.)
I once was walking down a city street and realized a man was keeping pace with me. I started walking faster to lose him, he started walking faster to stay right by my side. I slowed then. He slowed. Eventually I slowed to a complete stop. He slowed to a stop and just stared at me.
I was scared at first, then I became filled with rage. It was the middle of the day and people were around so I just let loose. I started yelling at him to stop following me. He went from looking smug to looking terrified. People turned to look at him. He tried to meekly explain that he's allowed to be on a public street. I yelled and yelled, saying leave me alone, stop following me, creep, etc. When I started walking again, he stayed put. Yeah, total cowards.