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Just want to credit this intelligent lady for this post
https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPRv8jNTG/
She gives an excellent run down of how Men are Parasites and women are Hosts. The sooner you understand the reality of this dynamic between men and women, the better life choices you can make (hopefully).
Men will suck the lifeforce out of you and they want access to you while giving you less than nothing in return. They just take take take take. The onus of birth control is on you so that's damage to your body and hormones, half the bills are on you in addition to the lion's share of child rearing, emotional labor, mental labor (shopping lists, kids lunches, drs appts, etc). The cooking is on you, the cleaning is on you. Making holidays like Christmas special is on you. Mother's Day, father's Day birthdays and other special occasions are on you. Yet they won't even give you an ounce of gratitude. Instead, they give you an attitude when you ask for help. They argue with you, they belittle you. They bring their porn addictions into the bedroom and humiliate you. They're sex pests even after you've come back with stiches from giving birth.
And trust me it's so so so much more than this. The emotional, mental and spiritual trauma that comes with paring yourself with a man is not a happy life to live. I understand it's hard for a lot of women because we are biologically wired to want companionship and also brainwashed to crave fairytale romance that doesn't exist. Risking your life, and sometimes permanently damaging your body to continue his bloodline is on you. The risk of pregnancy is still life changing even if you don't want children. Living with a man can also be a risk to your safety. Men are stronger. It's a provable biological fact. Women are vulnerable because we don't match men in physical strength. Men can make money back but women cannot get their life back. You are also at the risk of emotional damage and mental trauma should you choose the wrong parasite. And this kind of stress can have physical effects.
Even if he's an HVM unicorn who gives you a car, hires a maid, etc just remember that none of it will ever equal to the life force a man takes from you every time he sleeps with you. So be conscientious of how you choose your parasite should you choose to be with one. Always remember that you are the host. This kind of thinking will enable you to leave at the drop of a hat if needed. Don't listen to creators who teach you how to finesse men. Money from them isn't worth having your lifeforce sucked out of you. Spend that time building your own business or learning a new skill and truly free yourself from men. Forever deleting dating apps is one of the most powerful things you can do. Stop letting men have easy access to women. Always remember. You are the Host.
What life force does a (HV) man take from me every time he sleeps with me? (Genuinely asking, is this referring to something specific?)
that lady knows her shit! never heard wiser words. HVM are too rare and they also take up your energy. the difference is that they take up less energ than LVM and provide. but that's it.
even just as 'friends', men are parasites. family members, parents, siblings, they all suck the life out of you.
some women are parasites too, but i think in their case it's more related to their character, values and personality (even mental disorders). but with men it's just what they do. healthy men too. even as an idea and a desire (like when i wanted a byoyfriend and that made me depressed and confused). so draining.
I disagree on the part about a HVM doing this. If he is truly HVM this won't happen. He will add to your life in so many ways and not take away. I don't think any life force is taken from me when I make love with my husband. But for the average non HVM yes I agree.
For the love of the universe, please stop capitalizing "men" and then NOT capitalizing "women." Dun gib me a REAL bad case of the ickies.