Long distance - how should it look like? Is this worth it?

We met, exclusive, a couple 3 months in, he moved. He does have crazy work schedules. But still makes time to call every day. My problem however isn't that, or that hes manipulative etc. Hes not a bad guy per se. But I dont feel like he really cares that much, that we cant see eachother often. In the beginning he told me after only 3 days that he couldnt wait any longer. Now it seems oh, this will be so rushed, maybe move it one more week? Now we havent seen eachother in a couple weeks. And when we call, I feel like he doesnt tell me enough how much I mean to him/he misses me, or direct plans to see me. I have friends and even strangers I meet that put more effort into finding a place to eat, for example. I feel like in all other aspects we are quite compatible. Obviously its not all bad - but it never is, init. I go outside and I have a list of suitors. I have all these options, but I'm waiting on him, and yes he is putting effort, calling every day, writing. But for me this feeling of being desired, and that he really needs to see me, is not there as much. Its almost as if he thinks he has me safe so its fine.

Edit: Thanks for the very much needed wakeup call. Idk where this victimesque energy from me was coming from, but it’s gone now 😂💅 Obviously forgot the basics. Ugh. Cringe.