Is my friend trying to emotionally manipulate me?

A month ago, I posted about ending my friendship with my friends that I knew over decade because I felt like they were treating me as their nanny for the past 6 months.

A month has passed. I have gone no contact and I’m mourning the loss of our friendship. Guess what? She sends an emotionally charged video of a child getting assaulted. For a week, I wondered why she would do this. After going no contact for month, the first thing she sends me is this video, like why?

Someone told me that it’s a form of emotional manipulation to get me reconnect with her but on her terms. I’m still wrapping my head around this, but what does FDS think?

It could be possible as abusers do this, but I don’t see her as one.