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I feel like that is the case, otherwise why would you want/feel the need to be inebriated the first time you're meeting someone who will potentially be your partner? Also just gave online dating a try for the first time in a long time (against my better judgment), however it's my first time trying Hinge. Can anyone who has used Hinge before share their imput? Is it actually better than the rest? Thanks ladies! Love you, as always!
Yes. He’s also not asking for a date, saying ‘have wine sometime’ is the equivalent of saying ‘we should hang out sometime’.
They either want to fuck or they're an alcoholic or most likely a combination of the two.
Rose all day oh wow he can quote an unfunny t shirt written in a stupid font. And he's ugly. This post triggers me. No Hinge is not better than the rest. They are all exactly the same. God.
I was thinking about this the other day.
The fact that multiple cultures say alcohol is an aphrodisiac is proof that rape culture is alive and well.
Yes. Yes it is.
Like someone else has said, he didn't actually ask for a date.
But yes, generally speaking it's not a sign of anything good.
Yes, that is what they’re looking for. I don’t advise doing OLD but if you’re gonna do it, then never meet at their house or meet for drinks
I have this belief that Hinge only works if you meet mutuals on there (e.g. acquaintances you didn’t know were single). Personally, nothing good has ever come out of meeting strangers from Hinge, especially if they’re like that just wanting to drink a bottle of wine with you🥴
Girl, he’s wearing a leaf’s sweater.
As a Canadian I can 100% tell you guys who like the Leafs are just not in touch with reality and completely insane, don’t do it.
I tried Hinge and don’t like it and didn’t have luck with it. I found a lot of fuckbois and scrotey behavior on that app. I find the prompts appeal to men who are avoidant/casual types. I’m looking for a long-term relationship though, so might just be my preference.
I don't drink with men anymore. I am appalled at my own past behavior where I would get drunk around men all the time and thought nothing of it, not comprehending the danger I was in. I do drink, but I won't let myself be in that vulnerable state with men again.
"Alcohol is the fastest road between me and pussy." <-- how all LVM think
It’s much lower quality than a coffee date. At least a coffee date is somewhat safer.
When a guy asks me out for drinks I think he’s cheap, low effort AND he’s trying to lower my inhibitions so he can rape me.
I don’t drink alcohol for various reasons. (I only have diluted alcohol cooked into desserts or sauces on rare occasion) I hate how men (and sometimes pickmes) are so persistent when they find out I don’t drink.
I used to even put “I don’t drink” on my online dating profiles and men attempted to disregard it all the time. Instant block.
Whatever their intentions, it is low effort and the bar will only get lower from there. We don't do drinks or coffee dates.
When Im offered a drink I always say you can buy me a drink and bring it to my house and then leave but I’m not meeting up with you for one.
See my post on the subject
https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com//forum/top-posts-today/definite-indications-that-he-s-just-not-into-you
https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com//forum/ask-fds-public/reject-men-who-ask-you-on-coffee-drink-or-walk-dates
One of my gfs was on hinge and another app. Her now husband was also on Hinge. However, she told me that she would’ve probably swiped left on him on the app but he is a wonderful husband and treats her like a queen. They ended up meeting through mutual friends but were both looking to date at the same time just had bad luck.
This reminds me of something I've been curious about. I feel like I don't really know the percent of guys who think "everyone does drink dates now, drink dates are normal" (which is true, they are normal, and I also hear a lot of pickme's saying they want drink/coffee dates because they're shorter lol) vs the percent of guys who actively choose drink dates for cheap/rapey reasons.
I'm in a relationship now anyway, so more of just a curiosity, but would it be worth saying something about how that's not a real date and see how he responds, or as soon as someone mentions drinks you block and delete?