Impotent (prostate cancer) men

Thanks for your response. I am having an experience with an impotent male. He led me on in a very public way. I didn't chase and therefore avoided embarrassment when his girlfriend (?) showed up. Now, months later, whenever I run into him, he is not welcoming and perhaps even contemptuous toward me. This leads me to conclude that he was never attracted to me in the first place, and that he wanted to humiliate me. In the past I might have claimed some responsibility for his behavior because after all I'm a vital and spirited person. I wasn't really aware that these qualities could threaten an impotent male or that he would work hard to create a situation where I would blame myself. This inexplicable behavior probably happens far more than women realize and may continue to increase as we age. Never chase

This comment makes me think you are male. Mainly because you are utilizing shame within your communication to me.