If a woman, initiates or suggests a date, who pays?

IMO if he values her, he’d still pay.

My thinking is that, if a man were gentlemen, he’d pay regardless.

My girl friends are saying that who ever initiated should pay, because it makes sense.

Idk anymore, this has been on my mind the whole time.

Update: now I’m like, why would she even initiate to go with him? Wouldn’t it be better to go alone or with her friends?

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I think whoever asks/initiates the date should pay.

BUT I’d never in a million years ask a man on a date and you shouldn’t either.

The handbook says you shouldn’t pay for dates. So this is kinda a silly question to ask on here.

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I get we’re all here to learn. But she’s not new.

Even if you know nothing of Fds you’d know the answer to this

Plus I do agree who ever asks should pay. But we don’t ask men out or chase men. So it’s a moot point.

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