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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=SPMOjevpQko&t=6s
This interview, with a male psychologist, stunned me. I felt seen, hearing a man speak the unvarnished truth. Some highlights are:
Men do not connect to life: this is why they’re dangerous, angry and hate women
Men are afraid of women, and they know they’re inferior. This is why they hate, harass and abuse women
All men must get help. They are - as a mass - mentally ill. Psychotherapy, and looking inside themselves as The Problem, is the only solution to the danger & violence of men
Most men refuse to grow and change. They just get angry and blame others (we all know this!)
Evidently this video has had so much feedback (praise & criticism), the group is going to release more detailed information
There are a few “good men” but even these cannot be trusted; and women cannot fix men
TW: The lady interviewing him says some pick-me things. But he comes back strongly with his points
Would love to hear your thoughts!
I think this type of video is pretty spot on, sadly. It’s a useful resource for women who are breaking out of societal norms around giving men the benefit of the doubt or discrediting their own misgivings about a particular man.
However, I think FDS generally believes in the existence of at least some HV men (otherwise we’d just give up completely), who should always be subject to boundaries because adult love is not unconditional.
I will say that my own experience with men has been much better than “they are all dangerous predators” and a bit better than “they are all completely mentally ill”, but it’s contained a good amount of “broken bois” who can’t connect with their own feelings and especially can’t connect with mine.
I think we need to keep both truths alive in our heads (many men have significant enough problems to invalidate them as an appropriate partner, but with proper boundaries and vetting, some men will prove themselves to be viable partners) if we’re interested in dating. Otherwise, I don’t see how to find the motivation to keep at it (and I think I’d give off enough femcel vibes to scare away any halfway empathic guy).
Of course men blame others...women especially. God forbid they should pay for a therapist 🙄
Thank you❤️. I am watching it at the moment. I love the way the YouTube Channel is replying back to men.
I saw this months ago and love it. He’s dropping truth bombs left and right.
Men are indeed sick and don’t want to be treated. Yet they wonder why women are picking the bear 🐻
I literally think of the show queer eye and how most dusties need that rehabilitation