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Last year, a very young man (5 years younger) asked me out. I rejected and ignored him, but we're still friends on social media (before he asked me out).
Today, he reached out to start some mundane chitchat. A mutual friend accidentally told him about my whereabouts. He might show up to one of clubs that I frequent. I tried to keep it civil, stonewalled him, and left him on read.
There's a chance he might ask me out again, but I plan on telling him that I still don't like him and that he should date someone else his age. I'm a bit worried. From talking to him, it seems as though his game is better, so I know he's being coached by someone.
There's another guy I enjoy talking to and spending time, but I'm afraid that he might try to insert himself (like he did last time) into the conversation and try to find ways to spend time with me.
I repeat, I want this guy far away from me, because I find him repulsive in every way. He's too immature, and I do not like how he talks.
My plan is to keep ignoring him, hangout with my friends, and sit as far away from him as possible.
FDS what would you do?
I’m sorry but if you find him so repulsive, why is he still on your social media? So step 1, block him. Don’t engage in any civil chit chat with someone you’re not interested in, in the future. Guys take any little crumb of attention as interest. Don’t mention the age part if he tries asking you out in person. Say I’m not interested. Leave it at that. Don’t give him any room for discussion or rebuttal. Walk away. Don’t engage.
Also if you’re with another man and the scrote keeps trying to interfere, tell the guy you like that the scrote won’t leave you alone. Could be a vetting strategy. Not in a macho man- this is my woman!1!1 type way, but see how he reacts to seeing that you’re uncomfortable.
A good way to get a man to leave you alone is to lie and tell him you’ve got a boyfriend. It’s always worked for me. If he knows you’re lying, even better.
Block him?