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I felt a little worried for my friend

I have a friend since childhood and I know her husband pretty well. She confided in me about how her husband starting playing games with another girl a lot. He started leaving hearts under her posts. She ended up telling me that she was angry and jelous about it and first and one time didn’t talk to him for a couple of days. She said they ended up talking about it and that she’s on medication and that it was ocd.

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erythrura

Feb 15

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I just love it when real mental health issues are used to gaslight women who have legitimate concerns🙄.

Oh no, he's not cheating! It's just your anxiety and OCD that's the problem! (newsflash: he's cheating)

Oh no, he's not being negilent and abusive to you on purpose! It's just your anxiety and you should have CoMuNiCaTeD more to teach the poor little guy that what he did hurt you! (newsflash: he absolutely knew what he was doing).

The accusation of having mental health issues and certain kinds of "psychotherapy" have been used to control and silence "difficult" women for centuries. Don't fall for that.

Unknown member

Feb 15

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Yeah, this is why I refuse to engage in “therapy”. In the U.S., the primary purpose of therapy is to brainwash women.

lauren

Feb 15

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I felt bad when she said that was one of the pain reasons she was seeking therapy and how her husband told her it was her anxiety getting to her but in reality anyone would be a bit upset I would think. And I guess she had told him to stop putting hearts under her posts and he said okay and then kept doing it.

Sara H

Feb 15

Men gaslight Women to such a fundamental level it’s so sad, their are women who fall for it. Most men are so full of shit. It’s insane. If your friend does have OCD this situation is much more sensitive. OCD can make someone can end up questioning their own sanity. Is she seeing a therapist? Her husband is most definelty red pilled and is fucking with her mind. Does she know about this community, you could introduce her to FDS.

Unknown member

Feb 17

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How much you wanna bet her OCD is the result of this wonderful marriage she in?

FlameThrower

Feb 17

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This. It's amazing how these ailments and disorders disappear once we dump these NV scrotes.

FlameThrower

So basically he's having an affair or at the very least is at the start of one, and gaslights her to make her feel she's the f*ed up one? Cute.

Her "OCD" wouldn't exist if this guy was out of her life.

Y'all ever dumped a gaslighting scrote and watched your anxiety disappear, your insomnia get instantly cured, your stress levels dissipate, etc. Etc. Etc...

When we say a person is toxic, we literally mean these people are slow dripping poison into your subconscious and into your body. People who do this shit are nothing to take lightly. You *will* feel residual effects by staying around people like this. You will end up feeling "sick" in various ways. It is inevitable.

She has no choice but to leave him if she wants to save her sanity and if she ever wants to feel better again.

DianaPrince

Her husband starting playing games with another girl a lot. He started leaving hearts under her posts. -- She said they ended up talking about it and that she’s on medication and that it was ocd.

...well, that escalated quickly. Wow. The husband sounds like a gaslighting expert to me. I can't.🤦‍♀️ HE is practically starting a long distance affair but somehow THE WIFE is to blame?? Yup, sounds perfectly logical to me. /s

I hope he's gonna become an ex husband soon, but I don't have high hopes.

lauren

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The girl is a streamer so her husband mods her page too. I guess they almost did get a divorce. She told me she didn’t talk to him for a week. I talked to him myself about it and he said he thought it was ocd too and he’s glad she’s dealing with it better now. I feel like it’s kind of bull tho. She’s a bit naive in things. Maybe I’m overthinking it but I don’t want her to be hurt and I know she doesn’t want the same for me

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DianaPrince

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You're not overthinking, you're a good friend. In cases like this you can only lead the horse to the water etc. - tell her that no, that's not normal or decent behaviour and that she's not overly sensitive and so on. That will hopefully boost her self confidence and lessen the gaslighting effect. It's up to her if she does something, unfortunately. It's so frustrating to observe these things and not being able to do much about them.

Apple

Your story sounds quite similar to what happened to my friend. My ex friend was engaged to now ex and she broke it off with him for another guy whom she met playing video games. We did not think it would lead in that way, but it’s these little instances as such that amount to infidelity.

I felt a little worried for my friend

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