How to curate forum experience?

I feel this. An option not to load pictures by default and only show them when you open the post would be great.

Agreed! That’s a great idea

If you're on a desktop browser and have the UBlock Origin extension installed, you can right-click on the image and select "Block element..." and then click "Create". Note that at least in Firefox, you'll have to actually close and re-open the tab, a refresh won't be enough to take effect. Hope this helps anyone at all. :) I share your frustration with this lol. Something about disgusting mens' faces just assaults my psyche.

I would follow that one for sure! Seeing these keeps me from thinking I should get back OLD because "maybe things have changed", when really they've gotten worse!

Dating apps have gotten progressively worse, and honestly until women opt out from the onslaught of abuse they will inevitably experience there, those companies have mo incentive to make the experience more women friendly. But I know how hard it is if you’re new in a city and are yet to make friends. Best to make friends first and go out to places the men you want may frequent. Dating apps are a huge waste of time. But they give you just enough “hopium” to keep you hooked. A friend tried to set up a Match profile (apparently Match is “different”) for me and was surprised by how strongly I resisted. They’re all the same in my opinion.

So, like all of Bumble, lol?

This.

It was actually a rule on the og sub that OLD and shitty relationship subreddit screenshots were not allowed. The sub was spammed at one point with women’s shitposts of the scrotes they saw online. As you can imagine, the posts were not helpful or insightful, just there for karmafarming and shock value.