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I feel like it happens EVERY time I go out in public. It often happens when the wife and kids are RIGHT there next to him and the man will do it in a super obvious way. Usually the wife is significantly better looking than the man and they often have a toddler sitting in their shopping cart.
Yesterday I was waiting in line at a store and this man and his wife were waiting in line behind me. The man kept invading my personal space so I decided to get in front of my shopping cart and use it as a barrier because I felt like this creep gave off the vibe that he wanted to crawl up inside me or something.
The wife noticed and said "Let's get in another line" he said "No it's okay I'll hold this spot for you" I just wanted to punch him over and over in his disgusting face. I felt so bad for that woman.
He blatantly stared at me up and down for a good 5 minutes and he got so close to my shopping cart that his crotch was hovering about 1 inch from the handle and resting on it at some points. The wife was waiting for him to get into the other line with her but he ignored her the whole time and acted like she didn't exist.
I kept giving angry death glares to show him I knew what he was doing but he didn't care. Finally I was so fed up I took my mace out and had it ready in my hand. Then AlL oF tHe SuDdEn he noticed his wife was waiting in the other line and joined her.
That's just the most recent example but it seems like lately men just have so much freaking audacity. I sometimes feel guilty for dressing up in my favorite outfits but I also don't want to stop because I'm really into fashion and sewing. Like yeah I should spend hours on the sewing machine and spend money on fabric to create cute outfits but only wear them where nobody can see them because that totally makes sense. I love it when other women compliment my outfits but I HATE THAT MEN SEE IT AS AN INVITATION TO HARASS AND LEER AT ME.
I'm not even wearing stuff thats super revealing and summers can often be well into the 110's so covering up in this hot weather isn't an option. I was wearing a t-shirt and leggings that day. Barely any skin was showing and I was wearing that because I just finished working out at the gym. I know it's the scrotes fault and I shouldn't blame myself but I still feel so bad for the wives and feel like I'm in danger sometimes.
I also feel like if I start getting more aggressive that could escalate a situation but I also feel like if I'm not assertive enough they'll see me as an easy target.
I just want to be left alone so I can enjoy shopping in peace. I HATE THESE MEN I HATE THEM WHY DO THEY HAVE TO RUIN EVERYTHING THESE MEN SHOULD BE FREAKING GREATFUL THAT THEY EVEN HAVE A WOMAN WILLING TO BE WITH THEIR MEDIOCRE LOOKING ASSES AND GET TO PASS ON THEIR SHITTY GENES IN THE FIRST PLACE! THEIR AUDACITY IS SO DISGUSTING I WISH EVERYONE WOULD STOP ENABLING THESE DEGENERATES IM SO FREAKING TIRED OF THIS! UGHHH! IM FED UP IM TIRED OF LIVING LIKE THIS! I FEEL LIKE IM WALKING ON EGGSHELLS.
IF THIS HAPPENS AGAIN IM NOT SURE IF I'LL BE ABLE TO HAVE AS MUCH PATIENCE IM TOO FREAKING FED UP. I AM FED UP! IVE ALREADY BEEN THROUGH ENOUGH TRAUMA IN MY LIFE I DONT NEED THIS.
Don't be mad about scrotes being scrotes. Go for the jugular and go out of your way to tell the wife how cute her baby is and then look up and down at him with a scowl. I love doing this kind of stuff because they just look so sad after.
Compliment his wife and ignore him completely. That's what I do. LOL.
I only acknowledge women in relationships in public. I've had dudes look down dejectedly when they say hello and I say "oh, hello" to their wife instead, and she smiles like she's been treated like a person for the first time since she found her unpaid surrogate parasite. I feel so bad for these women, and I can't imagine being so entitled that I'm married to someone who gave up a last name and ruined her body for kids, and I'm shut off socially to the point that I view other people as a meat market. That's how these dudes are thinking, they aren't socializing the way people in a communicty or society do. They're viewing things as everyone for themselves, women as prey, and other men as dudebro gang buddies or competition. Next time this happens, look behind him and say you like her blouse or something.
When my mom worked at Old Navy a few years ago, she was doing a shift in the fitting rooms. There was an older married couple and the husband was trying to flirt with my mom in front of his wife. My mom was having none of it and asks the wife "does he always do this". Unfortunately, the wife answered yes. Men are pigs.
"Bro, go help your wife. Remember her? The one you married."