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My mother just told me this story about one of her daughter's friend. Apparently she dated a guy for 6 years and he moved in to her place. He's a hobosexual what can I say she was young and stupid at the time and he sold her this dream of how he was going to make it one day. She became a nurse, but he's still the budding entrepreneur/ day trader who now has a video game/ porn addiction. When they broke up he refused to leave and the cops got involved. Because they were together for 6 years, in my area, they are considered common law partners, and he's also a tenant so they cops sided with him and made her go through the legal process. She's upset because according to the rules, you have to give the evicted person 3-4 months to find a place to live but right now there's a 1-2 year wait list to even get the eviction papers. His true colours have shown. They no longer sleep in the same bed, but he's bringing home random girls and hosting parties in the middle of the week. He games until the early morning disrupting her sleep schedule, and eating her food. All in all, he's being a massive jerk, and he's not actively looking for a new place, because he knows about the wait list.
In addition, he also made these claims that despite not paying rent, he's contributed his time, energy, and even bought some of their household appliances together (the tv, fridge, and time spent fixing the house together), but it's not a big deal. She just wants him out has agreed to either reimburse him for the appliances or let him take it with him when he moves out.
I suggested that she move out for the week, and hide all her personal belongings and remove the locks on every room and remove the front door, so that he leaves earlier, but it might be risky since he could complain to HOA and they could fine her.
What would you do? Or how did you manage to kick out your ex in this type of situation?
I would talk to the landlord to find a way to get out of the lease, move out with every single thing that belongs to me (without telling him before) and find a new place by myself and let him rot.
Keeping the apartment is not worth the stress of living with a scrote like this. The exact details would depend on the legal situation where you are but where I am, this would basically give him the choice to either take over the lease and pay for it himself or to move out as well.
EDIT: I helped friends do "guerilla moves" like this. If you are feeling petty, taking every single light bulb in the house, all the silverware and all mattresses with you is always fun. We also dug up all the plants she planted in the garden and took them. If you have enough friends and plan well, it just takes a few hours to erase every trace of you living there.
I was in this situation with my ex, although I owned my house. And he also owned his own building that he was perpetually "fixing up" but refused to move back into. I separated all accounts, blocked his Wi-Fi access, stopped sharing meals (I'd eat out a lot) and packed up all his stuff. Made it as uncomfortable as I could. Since the courts were so backed up, I figured it would have also taken forever for him to come after me for unlawfully evicting him. I took a chance, moved him out while he was at work and changed the locks, put all his stuff either in my garage or on his back porch. He was pissed, but thankfully nothing ever came of it aside from mantrums and threats. Your mileage may vary.
Lol these hobosexuals are like the plague, they come with ease but it takes everything to get them away from you.
Unfortunately, I was the one that had to move. I knew he couldn't afford the rent and would be evicted soon after, so I found a new apartment, and left him to pay the bills. He learned how fucking hard it was pretty quickly, after having been coasting off all my hard work.