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I saw this question of Reddit and most men on the comments said they don't have IG or that they don't follow insta models. But there are of course some men who outright claimed "all/most" men are into insta porn and it's "normal." Personally I only came across two guys in dating who did this and both I dumped as soon as I found out.
One guy even claimed that he only follow women to show the women he dated that he got "options." Which is baffling to me becasue I don't know why would any women would think men thirsting over women online means he actually got any real chance with those womem. I thought it would be obvious he is just an orbiter and won't respect him.
In my experience there's a clear pipeline of porn > insta models > hardcore porn > cheating. It all comes down to entitlement. Beware, these men will break your self esteem.
What she's really asking is "should I lower my standards", and the answer is "no". No no no never.
Men in relationships need to delete insta.
On the internet and especially Reddit, you'll mostly likely find people who claim it's "normal" to follow IG models and soft porn accounts. It comes with the territory. My bf and I don't use IG a lot, and our feeds are memes and animals – I never get recommended fitness models or anything like that because I don't consume such content. Not everyone lives in the fitness/fashion/lookism/porn online bubble.
The funny thing is, if the roles were reversed men would crucify us for following “loads of men” on IG.
I only follow people I know, or people who produce stuff related to my hobbies/interests. I would expect the same from a man.
I am strict on my IG. I have it on private and don't allow randoms follow me.