Hello iam so sorry if it comes out as pick me iam not sure but past 2 years i have had such bad dating experiences and even after following fds I felt i have just had bad luck even after following everything sometimes you really cannot predict if he really like you . Has anyone felt their heart feeling numb I deleted all my dating apps yesterday I felt absolutely disgusting swiping swiping swiping and knowing my ex is back on the app where I met him yup things feel too fragile these days in dating world . I don’t want to engage with men romantically or torture myself on apps or have another low value experience with some entitled prick . Has anyone gone through these phase and how did you overcome it if at all .
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I feel the same way! I gave up dating 6 years ago in my late 20s. These men are absolutely POS and blame women for men mistreating us. I don't smile or make eye contact and behave as a Muslim woman would in the US as they would in their country like somewhere like Saudi where its not normal for any woman to interact with any man. I'm the same here yet I'm blonde green eyed and American/Brit. They are ALL the same, whether white, Indian, Middle Easterndoesn't matter. They all have one thing in common- lack of empathy and huge egos. 😪 So I leave them alone and lash out if any of them tries to get close like a rabid animal. I hope they see the fear and pain in my eyes and realize it's a result of their own kind and the pain they Inflict on women without batting an eye. The only way to hurt them is hurt their egos by denying any access to you 💔
Also remember 99% of men on apps are predators (narcissists, borderlines, antisocial personality disorder (sociopaths), malignant narcissists, already married looking got a side chicken, polyamorous aka trying to use multiple women for s*x with no commitment or expectations from him) That's why I didn't even try to look at an app after my late 20s. Be careful out there. These men on apps only want s*x and a side chick.
Taking a break is always a good idea. Just think of how much you learned instead of what a failure it all was.
Yes. I feel the same.
I just met a guy on holiday, he hit on me but I didn't sleep with him. He just responded to my text 2 days after I sent it! Holy moly. I'm depressed.
I feel similarly - indifferent toward men. But my heart isn’t totally numb, I can feel happiness and sadness. It just has nothing to do with romance or men.
It’s actually really nice to enjoy my life, work hard, cultivate healthy relationships with friends and family, and feel free.
I hope you can enjoy healthy emotions (not men-centered) too! It’s very peaceful.
Well, you’re definitely not alone, for sure! Can’t tell you how to get through it because I don’t know myself as I’m still trying to exorcise some pickme outta my head as well! Lol