Was speaking to this guy 2 years ago never slept with him he moved away and we reconnected recently as he was coming back to our hometown. I’ve always fancied this guy he is my type to a T but I have only slept with 4 guys and never wanted to sleep with him easily. I had urges too (I’m young and I have eyes) the sexual attraction is there but I didn’t want to open my legs up for this guy when we were just getting to know each other. Anyway a friend of mine who I’ve become more distant to as of recent but still consider a friend used to talk to me about this guy I met him through her as she was always telling me how much he found me attractive etc and that he had a crush on me. He had spoke to me about this mutual friend of ours before and said he found it unattractive how many guys this girl has slept with (it’s a lot no offence to her) and he would never want to settle down with a girl like her. He got back in contact with me around a month ago and was saying all the right things and more asking me if he would be seeing me and complimenting me to the high heavens. I haven’t heard off him since he arrived back in our home town but he kept liking all my stories on social media??? I didn’t reach out to him and never have, he’s always contacted me first and I’ll never chase a man.
Anyway I found out he went home with my friend on the weekend? She knows I had a previous Intrerest in him and is meant to be my friend it’s just so weird. She also did this to another girl we know and went home with a guy her friend was seeing I called her out on this. I am finding it hard not to internalise this and wonder why he went back with her…i know he’s not my property but it’s just disappointing.
Also block him