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What would you ladies think about a man offering to be your sub in terms of financial domination? A man has propositioned me on a dating app and wants to send me money, ofc it's a kink for him and he wants me to insult him, I believe.
I'm in two minds about it, it would be nice to be spoiled for once but I feel it borders sex work and may not be worth it.
Part of me thinks I should accept the "spoiling" but not be degrading.. However that's probably the main appeal of the kink.
This does feel a little different to other types of domination as I don't really have to do anything or get naked. I'm not sure where it lies in terms of female benefit. If anyone has any experiences with it, please let me know.
The man is reasonably attractive and not pushing my boundaries, but I'm aware that could change easily.
Find a man who doesn't need a sexually gratifying reason to spoil you. It will be healthier for you.
You gotta ask yourself what your tolerance is for male depravity. He may be the "sub" but hes in control, he calls the shots, and as a prostitute (thats the correct word for it) it would be YOU, not him, who would be genuinly degraded. And you'd be condoning the sexual degradation of women as a class, which some of us don't appreciate.
Personally, I have a 0 tolerance policy for male depravity. The less of it, the better off we all are.
Oh my gosh, do not do this! Are you for real? This does not seem like something a true FDSer would ever entertain. This is a form of prostitution.
We live in an attention economy. Some men do not ever interact with women that they have to resort to these perversions. 100% 🌽addict too be careful with them they might even use deep fake technology on your photos etc. I highly recommend cutting them off.
90% chance you won't see any money. Men (especially horny men) lie and he'll prob ghost after your first request for money. Or he'll straight up scam you somehow, acting like you need to login to some shady fake bank website to get your "money".
Not a great idea! I would recommend listening to the pod episode "Roxie Roots revelations and roasts" from a former female dom in your deliberation process. There's a part near the end about financial domination I think.
Don’t recommend, knew a guy like this (we were dating, this stuff came out afterwards. I went along with it, as it was further along in the dating period). Most of it is just fantasy, so just for sexting.
Any money they do send- I felt so uncomfortable.
The concept of it is degrading, it relates to kink for their benefit, there's no sexual pleasure for you in any of this.
Does not feel good in terms of self-worth/respect.
This was pre-FDS for me, and I look back and think indulging in someone's weird kinks like this is reduced-rate sex work, and that kind of thing has no room in a HV (peaceful/wholesome) life I'm building for myself.