No. I think it's too passive no matter who does it. A 'like' is simply just that. What counts for me is actually sending a message of interest along with that like.
Hmm. I feel that method works best when meeting IRL where small, one-time gestures of invitation are ok. The dynamic for a dating app is much different since women could be seen as "readily available", making it much easier for men to approach. Plus swiping & getting a match should create a mutual understanding that there's interest for both parties. Even then HE needs to initiate with a message & plan to take you out.
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Jun 28, 2022
No. It's just a lazy way for him to get your attention. If he's not reaching out/planning a date.....he's not that interested... he's just looking for a confidence boost.
One reason I will never go back on OLD. It’s so vague and low effort. Regardless, a woman sending a like comes across as pursuing. If you are referring to Hinge, I see sending a like as the equivalent of matching with a guy on Tinder and he starts the conversation with “Hey”.
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No. I think it's too passive no matter who does it. A 'like' is simply just that. What counts for me is actually sending a message of interest along with that like.
Yeah if the woman does it then it counts as pursuing, imo. It comes off as you inviting him to talk to you when he should be initiating if interested.
No. It's just a lazy way for him to get your attention. If he's not reaching out/planning a date.....he's not that interested... he's just looking for a confidence boost.
I consider it dropping the handkerchief. He may not even se your profile without it. And why pass up a chance on a man whose face you like?
One reason I will never go back on OLD. It’s so vague and low effort. Regardless, a woman sending a like comes across as pursuing. If you are referring to Hinge, I see sending a like as the equivalent of matching with a guy on Tinder and he starts the conversation with “Hey”.
No, it just shows interest. I would consider sending the first message as pursuing
Yeah, it means you’re interested or at least you initiated the whole thing.
Not really, a like doesnt mean much on OLD