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l don’t see the tangible benefits of marriage for women it seems like a terrible deal. Women take on almost every major risk in marriage and close relationships with men: abuse, murder, pregnancy, and the burden of household labor. According to the United Nations Office on Drugs and Crime (UNODC), a woman is killed by an intimate partner or family member every 11 minutes.
I understand that this is a dating community meant to help women find decent men. However, the reality is that when Women are in close proximity to Men it often comes with more risks than rewards. Women perform nearly three times more unpaid household and care work than men, according to UN Women (2022). Women also risk their lives during pregnancy and childbirth. According to the World Health Organization (WHO, 2023), an estimated 287,000 women die every year from complications related to pregnancy and childbirth. The burden of childcare also overwhelmingly falls on women, yet the children dont even take their mothers last name.
Marriage is a patriarchal institution that primarily benefits men, keeping them on LIFE SUPPORT at the expense of women. It’s sickening to see, how much Women get the bad end of the deal. Men only thrive at Women’s expense. Fuck that!
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Marriage as a woman is just signing up for a lifetime of unpaid labor, emotional babysitting, and watching a man slowly turn into a useless, entitled roommate who still expects you to be grateful.
1 - Hope you enjoy nagging a grown-ass man to wipe the crumbs off the counter while he pouts like a toddler who just got his toy taken away.
2 - Get ready for a lifetime of half-assed, two-minute thrust sessions followed by him rolling over and snoring like a chainsaw.
3 - You wanted to relax? Too bad, you’re now in charge of his social calendar, meal planning, and remembering his mother’s birthday because apparently, men’s brains stop functioning once they put on a wedding ring.
4 - Oh, you thought he’d maintain the gym body he had when you met? Cute. Get ready for beer guts, unwashed hair, and toenails sharp enough to cut glass while you’re still expected to look like a Victoria’s Secret model.
5 - No matter how successful you are, people will still ask, “But who’s taking care of the kids?” while your husband gets promoted just for showing up to a meeting with a baby picture on his desk.
6 - You wanted an equal partnership? Guess what? You just became the CEO of Cleaning, Laundry, and Meal Prep Inc.—while he gets a standing ovation for doing the dishes one time.
7 - You will sacrifice your sleep, body, and sanity while he gets a pat on the back for changing one diaper and calling it “helping.”
8 - Your money? His money. His money? Also, his money. And when you get divorced (because you will), he’ll cry about paying alimony like you didn’t just spend years being his unpaid maid, chef, and secretary.
9 - You will beg for freedom while he suddenly becomes “father of the year” to avoid child support and fights to keep half your shit just to spite you.
10 - Marriage isn’t love—it’s a legal contract that turns you into a personal assistant with benefits. The only way to win? Don’t sign up in the first place.