I was at work and there's a guy that likes me. He wants to ask me out and was telling my other coworker about it. My other coworker then told me this. Then proceeds to ask me out for him infront of him. How they both aren't embarassed is beyond me. This man is literally almost 30. It's no wonder why they don't get better. Why would they? They have no incentive to. It's incredibly disrespectful as well. As though I'm not worth the effort of taking a risk and asking me like a gentleman. I just don't get how men like this are attractive to others.
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Not a good idea to date a coworker anyway.
He will be admired for 'getting you'.
You will be judged and gossipped about. It could very well negatively impact your professional reputation at work.
I highly advise not dating him or anyone else from work.
I'm sorry, is this junior high?
This is passive intimidation/backing you into a corner to increase the chance that you'll say yes, It's like a mother coming up to you asking if you want to play with her kid infront of her kid. This tactic is a narcism playground so I'd stay away from both of them.
One dude wanted to hang out with me so I suggested visiting haunted houses and instead of shutting up about it he's telling others he's going on a date with me putting me in an uncomfortable spot. This is a way to make you feel you are held accountable to not let anything come between the date because everyone else knows about your plans.
Tell the colleague right now that you do not appreciate such disrespect and that If he can't come up to a woman himself then I don't want a person like that.
One of my co workers asked me to be his wingman because he didn't know how to ask a beautiful lady-colleague of ours out to a fancy dinner (which was my suggestion to him when he asked me how he should ask her out)
According to him, I should be a good friend and do this for him as a good friend and go fill her ears with praise about him.
I reminded him that I'm not his friend, just colleague for the day (our teams are shuffled everyday) and that he needs to handle his personal business himself.
He replied "Oh, I get it, fine" with a face and tone of "so you're jealous huh"
I just stared at him 😐 and wished him all the best.
This dude was supposedly 32 or something as well.
This is so icky. Like why is he acting like a middle schooler at 30.
If you're too shy to ask someone out, then you're too shy to date. And at thirty? What the fuck. No. Also: don't date your coworkers. Word will get around and you will be the joke of the workplace.