Yes, even HVM. Since the handbook advises us to act HV and not appear "easy" around men to attract HVM, it implies HVM have a madonna-whore complex too and only want to date women they perceive as "madonnas".
This complex is merely a bias where the man don't see women as normal people , and categorizes them into being "pure" or "corrupted", it's a misogynistic view where a woman who's seen as sexual (by them) is evil and deserves to be hurt by them.
So no, not all men are biased, a man with this complex will still be a scrote because they'll want to control you and "protect" you so you won't become corrupted as well, and they'll see you as if you're a child, also they're still misogynistic and their actions will bleed of that so don't expect to be treated like a princess.
Acting easy breeds of desperation and is unattractive regardless of the gender, desperate people latch into others because they simply want to be in a relationship and don't actually appreciate (or even know) the real person in front of them. I had a friend like that and the relationship didn't feel real as she'll befriend anyone, a friend to all is a friend to none.
HVM should not have a Madonna Whore complex, but they should appreciate you wanting to get to know them before sex because (1) they want a woman with standards and (2) they also have standards and want to get to know you first too.
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Oct 10, 2023
Most men do, yes. But my definition of a HVM doesn't . A HVM is sympathetic and would seek to understand why a woman who sleeps around does/did so. He wouldn't judge; he would try to understand because he sees all people, including women, as full, complex human beings. He also doesn't necessarily see promiscuity as a flaw, but doesn't engage in it himself because he simply doesn't want to.
I've dated a lot of men from all over the world, and in my experience, men with the deepest Madonna/Whore complexes are South American and Middle Eastern. They will literally tell you you're a whore once they've had enough of you. This makes sense when you think about the machismo in south american countries and the overt misogyny in many middle eastern cultures. The same countries also revere their mothers, in an almost unhealthy way. Mother = madonna who can do wrong; whore = all other women apart from maybe the one he marries.
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Oct 11, 2023
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Add South Asian Men to this. Mommy issues...Daddy Issues... Madonna/Whore Complex to the max. Will frequently cheat on their wives and seek prostitutes. Pedestalize white women while simultaneously thinking of them as whores. they're fucked up.
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Oct 12, 2023
Not all, but most, yes.
Be especially wary of those who do but pretend they don't. I'm talking about libfem men in particular.
This complex is merely a bias where the man don't see women as normal people , and categorizes them into being "pure" or "corrupted", it's a misogynistic view where a woman who's seen as sexual (by them) is evil and deserves to be hurt by them.
So no, not all men are biased, a man with this complex will still be a scrote because they'll want to control you and "protect" you so you won't become corrupted as well, and they'll see you as if you're a child, also they're still misogynistic and their actions will bleed of that so don't expect to be treated like a princess.
Acting easy breeds of desperation and is unattractive regardless of the gender, desperate people latch into others because they simply want to be in a relationship and don't actually appreciate (or even know) the real person in front of them. I had a friend like that and the relationship didn't feel real as she'll befriend anyone, a friend to all is a friend to none.
HVM should not have a Madonna Whore complex, but they should appreciate you wanting to get to know them before sex because (1) they want a woman with standards and (2) they also have standards and want to get to know you first too.
Most men do, yes. But my definition of a HVM doesn't . A HVM is sympathetic and would seek to understand why a woman who sleeps around does/did so. He wouldn't judge; he would try to understand because he sees all people, including women, as full, complex human beings. He also doesn't necessarily see promiscuity as a flaw, but doesn't engage in it himself because he simply doesn't want to.
I've dated a lot of men from all over the world, and in my experience, men with the deepest Madonna/Whore complexes are South American and Middle Eastern. They will literally tell you you're a whore once they've had enough of you. This makes sense when you think about the machismo in south american countries and the overt misogyny in many middle eastern cultures. The same countries also revere their mothers, in an almost unhealthy way. Mother = madonna who can do wrong; whore = all other women apart from maybe the one he marries.
Not all, but most, yes.
Be especially wary of those who do but pretend they don't. I'm talking about libfem men in particular.