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We are 23 and he often brags about how he was surrounded by girls in school. He had a female relative he was close with and he would flirt with her friends a lot. He had 3 girlfriends and one girl they were hooking up with in ages 14-16. He brags about losing his virginity at 14. We were sexting and he kept talking about his past experiences and how good of a lover he was. I told him I want it to be more about me and him rather than past partners..
He has a very eccentric style and I showed him to my grandma and she said he acts like that for girls to notice him. LOL
He tells me he hasn't dated or had sex 5 years now. I don't buy that... he also tells me he is demisexual and sapiosexual.
Why are you wasting your time on that LV walking petri dish? That's the real question to ask yourself here.
That guy is a walking red flag and instead of blocking and deleting (or not starting to talk to a guy like this in the first place) you sit here wasting your time wondering about his motives. They don't matter. There is no reasonable explanation that would make this behaviour not dangerous and LV.
Darling, STOP TRYING TO MAKE IT WORK. It ain't gonna. Throw that whole damn stinking man out and read the handbook.
If he has to brag about how good a lover he is....he's not.
He sounds more like a pathological liar who fucking WISHES he had shagged enough 'girls' to become proficient at it, haha.
You know what to do here: 👨➡️🗑️
Quick tutorial on men: when they whine about "not having had sex for # years," it's always a lie. They want you to feel sorry for them so you'll f*ck them.
Also, do not teach this loser anything, ie "I told him I want it to be more about me than past partners." Don't enable him to be better at tricking the next woman.
You are the prize. He is a user. Save your fabulous energy for yourself! ❤️
Block. Delete. No explanation.
Expect the statement about not having had sex within the past 5 years to be his excuse why he can't/won't show you a recent full panel std test.
the king of the jungle doesn't have to announce himself--the other animals know. anyone who brags about being a good lover at 23 is lying out of his ass. no one has mad lovemaking skills at 23, sorry.
I'm 23 too, first of all don't date guys our age, they're literally all community dicks. They think they're going to live forever so they're racking up body-count now so they can have the "marriage material" at 35, it's literally all exploratory right now, they don't feel love or connection. They sleep around and treat it like "they're finding themselves" but they're actually just using us for sex, especially with the more recent popularity of LGBTQ terminology, you literally have regular trashy straight guys slapping colorful stickers on themselves and calling themselves special.
Also I'm a demi-sap , no demi-sap immediately starts talking about sex, bragging, trying to get you to not use condoms as soon as possible so that *you* can do the labor of getting birth control later on. He's mad that it'll make the sex less good and his hairy peen won't feel galaxies n shit.
He's also bragging about "how good he was" implying he was probably abusive and feels the needs to pre-emptively defend himself and that's also probably why he hasn't gotten any in 5 years, he probably sexually coerced those young girls into doing it with him, 14 is too fucking young, he's genetically inferior by nature and he got horny and sexually assaulty way too soon because in nature he would've died first.
He's just a regular dude, drop him.
Coming from a serial-dater that couldn't be single for three weeks, stay away from woke guys , they're just regular rapey dudes with colorful flags in their twitter bio, nothing more nothing less. Truly woke men practically don't exist they're literally just trying to get laid by presenting themselves as "not your average", they benefit off of the privilege and "being woke".
Also! Here's the flaw with men presenting as sapiosexual.
Most men aren't smart or clever, they're narcissistic enough to believe they're intellectually superior but in the end they piss in their own face half the time, he has standards for women to be intelligent in order for him to respect them as a human being, which is a major red flag and he's most likely abusive. You may think he's smart but he's just narcissistic and confident.
He's going to make you a therapist and if you have brain fog he's going to call you the dumbest person on the planet even though he's not intelligent to begin with.
Most men aren't true demi-sexuals because they inherently benefit from the structure of heterosexual relationships, they have no qualms with using women for sex and then just "sticking around for the ride" because after all they can't get pregnant and statistically they're not going to be abused.
Sorry for the long comment, but yeah dating guys in their 20's has been a trash fire for me and the women I know, men are just whores rn, I'm kinda just waiting while I focus on my career, my friends have been following the same advice. I literally doubled my salary by not dating right now and focusing on myself.
It's kinda like the stock market, just gotta wait and not let society pressure you into settling for trash.
Complete up to you though! I don't want to sound like I'm judging you.
Demisexual and Pansexual are codes for ,"I'm into dudes". You want to be with a bisexual? Who will most definitely be fucking guys while he's fucking you?
You don’t need to waste your youth on men like that. Your brain is still developing and you need to focus on building a career and skill set that will give you more freedom and recognition later when you are old enough to date men who have grown enough act like civilized humans. When I was younger I put so much of my focus on men and I didn’t take female friendships or my career as seriously as I should have. Now I’m starting to realize that I have fewer dating options because I didn’t focus on those areas of life. Men are a prize you win after achieving those other more important things, they will never help your life advance, they only weigh you down.
And you are talking to him because?
"Demi" = liberal feminist brainrot.