Unsure what to do been celibate for 3 years (I’ve only ever slept with 4 people) and im 28. I had an awful previous experience with a complete and utter loser and the way I was treated put me off for 3 years lol. Obviously a woman has needs and I have attended to them by myself but I have missed having sex especially good sex but I just don’t like one night stands or anything no judgment to those who do I just can’t personally handle it. Been talking to this guy for a few months and nothing has happened but I do want to sleep with him but unsure wether I’m ready for a relationship if I’m honest I’ve been out the game so long he actually does seem like a nice guy and hasn’t been weird like the past ones but you just never know do you. I don’t wanna make a mistake of sleeping with this guy and then regretting it after? What do you guys think I’m not sure what I want from him but part of me does want to sleep with him cause it’s been so long but I also don’t know if it’s worth breaking celibacy for help lol
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If you just want a fling, I'd consider not telling him anything about yourself, so when it's time to bolt, you can. Use protection, especially if you're in a red state, including plan B.
Don't sleep with anyone in your friends circle, because men will pretend to be sex positive, then try to demonize you for doing something all animals do. Even adults are weird about women having sex, like it's a crime.
He probably won't be good in bed, because most men aren't, so you'll have to try to vet his sexual skills.