Beware of the weaponization of sperm. Once again, on the incel communities, they are being told to purposely wreck a young girls college career, future goals for herself etc by getting her pregnant. I don't get the hatred for us. Just soo scary...
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I really feel that society undersells what a big commitment it is to have a child with someone. Once you have a child with someone, you are tied to that person for the next 18 years. In contrast, if you marry someone and it turns out to be a mistake, you can (at least in theory) get a divorce and then go your separate ways. It's very difficult not to have contact with someone if you have a child together. I see people having children together, when they're not even married, like it's no big deal. It's a massive deal and not something to be entered into lightly.
Anyway back to OP's original point, I've never experienced baby-trapping myself (fortunately) but I don't doubt that it's a thing. Leaving an abusive partner is never easy but it's so much harder when pregnant or when you've young children. LVM know this and they exploit it. This is why it's so important to thoroughly vet a man before sleeping with him.
This isn't an uncommon phenomenon in the childfree community either. Women who reveal they are childfree are warned to protect their womb from fencesitter men (any man without a vasectomy) because many of them will intentionally poke holes in condoms, etc. in hopes of impregnating the woman and having her "change her mind" about having kids, and thus controlling her to stay dependent on him.
I've been telling older friends who have teen daughters to speak to them about males early. Never ever F around with a man if you still have a plan for the future. Stay away from them until you established a life and find yourself a high value man. Never a man below your caliber because he'll pressure you into early retirement.
Don't listen to men that you'll end up with dogs and cats, nothing is worse than allow a man to get between a great career or job. Even ending up with pets. I interviewed women who were devoted to their career and found a mate in their 40's. Why should I worry about these dust carpets who would no longer want me after 35? Why should I lose sleep over it when an old fat loser won't have me after 25? Men who value a woman's age have nothing to offer anyway.
They are the 50/50 manlets, the scrotes who would replace you anyway, hump beds behind your back, financial parasites. So if age makes them go away then be happy.
Success and achievements look much better on a woman than be a baby mama of multiple men.
they say we are bad for hating them when they're out there planning to ruin our lives with unwanted pregnancies. we have all the right in the world to fucken hate men. how are these people allowed to live in society???
This is rape
My daughter was baby trapped. He abused her and damaged our relationship for 10 years. He abused his oldest daughter. Then he tried killing my daughter, and almost succeeded. He wound up in prison. She survived. She and the children are living well, a new life far away. The oldest won't talk to him. The youngest has forgotten him. He almost killed her. She will have physical problems for the rest of her life because of the injuries he inflicted on her.
I believe this happened to me at a young age. I then had to give up my education and I’m only just starting to rebuild my career at a later stage in life.
This keeps coming across my radar. Men have an easier time replacing women's birth control pills with fakes. They only need to buy a look alike that is filled with sugar pills. I have even seen a couple online. It wouldn't be hard to do. Sugar pills and imitate the packaging. I have talked to a couple of women who diligently took their pills for years with no problem then suddenly got pregnant only to have the boyfriend pressure them into having the baby. I feel so naive not thinking of this before. Women need to keep their medications in a lock box. This is another reason to not give a man access to your personal space before you are married if you get married. So many women live with their boyfriends though.
Reproductive coercion is a form of abuse.
https://reproductive-health-journal.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/s12978-021-01143-6
Women might baby trap men to have child support, Men baby trap women because they are upset that the woman is better than them.