Apps vs “organic” probability of pornsickness

i can't tell the ages because honestly i don't remember.

i think that both might be equally disgsting pornsick losers. the difference is that some men are very good at hiding their perversion in person up until a certain point. i've noticed how differently they treat women when they're trying to get in out pants. they are polite, nice, charming. they seem normal. but give them 5 minutes with their friends, no women nearby, and he'll reveal his pornsickness shamelessly.

the ones in apps skip that part. they'll dive right into the gross behaviour quickly because it's easier to do so without consequences. but in the end i think they are all the same.

Tinder is set up to look like a catalog it makes men think of 🌽 because it's set up as "hot or not" model which Zuckerberg created with Facebook when it first started because he wanted access to the prettiest girls in the colleges. Men use tinder as the yellow pages of hooking up in my opinion and bumble is for narcissists or mommy boys

Why do you think these are different groups of men? Dating apps do not create new men. They are the same men.

I’ve met men in the wild who seemed normal, we exchanged numbers, I got sent his Apple ID and it showed his username. So I google the username and up pops his twitter, stream, twitch, tik tok, ig, etc and he’s a total pornsick scrote. A lot of men don’t seem to realize Apple sends us their ID cards including their email address and sometimes even their entire address and usernames, as well as a picture of them. VERY few have internet safety and that works in our favor. I saw what I needed to see, blocked and deleted. (My Apple ID doesn’t show off my personal info, nor a picture). Anyway, I’d say 99% of men on OLD are scrotes and we have a much higher chance of meeting quality men in real life. Though even men in real life can be quite disappointing and gross so the only good option is to keep your guard up and vet. A man isn’t truly HV until he’s proven himself to be over the course of years. Any man can pretend for a few weeks or months.

I met my current boyfriend online, NOT on a dating site or app, but on a mutual interest website and have had access to his entire social media stuff since day one. He’s easily googleable, too. He’s a normal, sweet guy and so far has proven be nothing but normal and sweet. He did confess that he used to watch porn, but grew out of it as he learned about how awful the industry was and that’s a respectable answer for me. Obviously, I’m still vetting him, but he’s passed so far and I get zero pornsickness vibes from him. His dick is hard with less than even a brush of my hand and he is great in bed, so what porn he did watch when he was younger was not enough to destroy his brain and body as an adult. Not to mention he’s respectful, soft-spoken, and doesn’t come off as a coomer or everyday life nor online. He isn’t disgusting, has no physical traits of someone who watches copious amounts of porn, and his brain isn’t always in the gutter. We’ve only been dating a few short months, so the sex is pretty new and I’ve been impressed by how easy it was and his abilities in bed. He doesn’t want to do anything a pornsick scrote would. He doesn’t ask for blow jobs, he doesn’t choke me, he doesn’t expect me to perform for him, none of that. The sex is actually good. His focus is on getting me off first and formost before enjoying himself and basically his sexuality is completly normal. So. I’d say I got lucky with him and he’s pursued me and taken me out to nice restaurants and got me nice gifts.

I wouldn’t call him a HVM yet, as I’d need to be with him for at least a few years, but he’s definitely got the potential. Men who aren’t pornsick definitely exist.

Edit: I’m 24 and he’s 25. He’s a few months older than me.