Men seriously need to learn how to handle rejection. I'm sick of these man-babies with fragile egos. This one actually stalked her and found her Instagram. BTW, this isn't my post. Also, people are triggered by OP because she doesn't do coffee dates 🙄🙄🙄.
Things like this make me scared to date.
What the fuck is this pompous, self-important word vomit? If she wanted a lecture, she'd have gone to university and actually learned something useful 🖕🏻
What responsibility? She unmatched boo fuckity hoo it's within her right to do so, you aren't friends or partners so she doesn't owe you an explanation why she doesn't want to talk to you anymore.
I love how men throw accountability in every situation to make a woman feel small. Men ghost after sex or after they are denied sex so where is theirs?
In my petty juvenile years I might have calling a person a d!ck for blocking but just to go out of my way to write a whole novel? Only if you keep screwing me over I might but not for being rejected by a mere stranger.
Never link identifying info like social media to your OLD profile!!! It is a safety hazard! Go so far that if you have an uncommon name, use a nickname/pseudonym. And obviously no last name. That small percent of crazy stalkers will find you and harass you if given the chance.
Men and their lessons. Stuff it
One more point after reading the stalker’s message more closely. He says that she expressed interest and he merely reciprocated. That’s the entitled passive misogynist attitude men get to bask in on Bumble! I don’t believe in using an OLD app that forces women to make the first move. It’s not “feminist” whatsoever.
Omg, so gross. Manbabies make me queasy af.
And more proof (not that we needed any) that coffee date-proposers should be avoided!
This piece of shit sounds unhinged and delusional! He is pretty much threatening her! Imagine how long it took him to find her which shows his determination and anger.
I’d would be careful as I was exactly in this situation many years ago. I ignored it and guy found out everything about me. To make story short, we ended up in court for a restraining order and this fucking scrote lied so much and even told the judge that him and I were in a romantic relationship living together. The fucking judge believed him! Please, just be careful!
This man is threatening her.
He sounded like this was his last rejection before he ends it all
lol, what a whiny loser. Couldn’t make it past a single paragraph of this pathetic mantrum.
That sounds like someone he knows also matched with her and is going to hurt her, definitely a threat.
On the flip side, men will have sex with you then IMMEDIATELY say "So... how are you gonna get home?".
My current boyfriend said one of his friends did this and when I made a comment about how misogynistic this behaviour is, he immediately responded with something like, "I don't really care, he's my friend" without missing a beat. The icing on the cake is a female friend then responded with "I don't judge, I have a growth mindset".
Doesn't matter how disgusting a man is, men seem to always have each other's backs. Women? Not so much.
Why do they speak like this 😒