Am I wrong to think that bisexual men are a red flag?

gosh, I had my last breakup a year ago and had not been on reddit since then. my last ex was blocked everywhere else.

I made the dumb mistake of not simply deleting his reddit profile today. I looked at it first-which I had never done before in detail because the top was a ton of gaming stuff.

Below that was a series of posts, dated from all 4 of the years he was with me. first him seeking women for hookups. After several pleas and looks like he got a bit of luck there but not much, his posts began looking for men(at that, men 8-10 years younger than him) and it looks like he had a lot of hookups with those men from the replies.

I'm disgusted. I knew he watched porn and I knew he had inappropriate convos with other women, but only now way after the fact do I know for sure he cheated on me physically at the time. And that he was way more promiscuous than I had thought. He had never mentioned being bi either. This was supposedly even during the most "loving" part of our relationship too. I did not even know this man at all.

Anyway his posts read as him not getting enough attention from women and then moving on to men because the hookups were easier.

I know I shouldn't care because it was in the past but it makes me feel dirtier for having been with him, and dumb because I had no idea what he had going on back then. Don't worry-I blocked him on reddit of course. Should not have given into my curiosity today.

I would say yes for now I would definitely avoid bi men if I was sexually active what with monkeypox being spread among mainly men now. And for the points you have mentioned(having to worry about his male friends; him increasing his chances for a quick impulsive hookup as men are more promiscuous in general)

And being less concerned about their health. think of how many men want to go without condoms and it's the woman who insists that they do wear one. What do you think often happens with two men.