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He kept insisting he comes to my dorm to watch a movie. I told him I have a roommate so that's not really possible. He kept annoyingly spam texting me, hitting notify anyway when I put my phone on dnd. Then called me twice late at night, one time waking me up at 2 am wtf. If it matters, I told him I have a bf, so I'm wondering why would he even try. We were going to the same club for college so I'm afraid to be mean to him. I started to ghost him after he asked me what I would do with him if he was with me for 30 minutes.... Here is the text:
Am I overreacting, or is it a chance he genuinely wants to hang out as friends? There is more text but it's basically him just having a conversation with himself lol.
Block him
This guy is a nut. You gain nothing having him around you. It's block o'clock
Would you be asking this question if a woman texted the same?
Have you ever texted somebody asking what would you two do if you visited them for 20-30 minutes? Have you ever texted somebody you wanted to be friends with again & again?
Let your friends know this guy makes you uncomfortable, to not mention you if they are social with him, and you don’t want to be in a place where he can catch you off guard or alone.
Sister, NEVER be alone in a room with this person.
No of course youre not wrong for "getting a bad vibe". This is NOTHING BUT a bad vibe. Wisen up.
He was not your friend; he wanted to hook up with you. That’s what the 20-30 minutes comment with the 😂😂 was implying.
For men, “friends” means something entirely different than what women think it means. It took me way too long to figure that out. You didn’t overreact, he was being a huge pain in the ass among other things.
You are not overreacting. This guy is very creepy. The constant texting is very needy, especially considering that you're not actually dating. Also I really don't like how he invited himself to your place. Not only is it rude but it's also putting you in a potentially unsafe position. Definately block and delete this guy. Also I'd advise against having male "friends" going forward. Most men are not interested in platonic friendships with women. If you really want to be friends with a man, always meet him in public. Never be alone with him, especially not at his place or yours.
this scrote gives off rapist vibes.
He's got porn brain rot.
I’m sorry sis, I had so much reading this. He sounds like a needy golden retriever without the vibes, or atleast giving off serial killer vibes.
Omg his comments took me out 💀
Why would he fucking want to hold you in his car?! Especially when you have a bf. Even if you didn’t have one, can you imagine this shit as a date. Sounds like he wants to get frisky in the back of his shitty car.
He needs to be roasted lnao. You should have been like you can fuck yourself for 20-30 min you weirdo!