Am I wrong for being worried when my female friends post something like this?

Watch the man drop her soon as they get home from the vacation she paid for.

Old pick me would have thought it was cute, but new me is like PLEASE be careful not to idealize a man and it’s okay to not want to do this. Cause I sure don’t want to have this mentality any more, it never benefited me 😭 I’ll treat the man I’m dating well, but I do want him to be the caretaker overall.

I used to do this and look at my relationship where I’m loved and respected… oh hang on, sorry, no I’m single.

Treating you man is nice. But why did they have to follow it up with "it isn't always about you"? I can hear this post calling me a spoiled, selfish bitch for expecting bare minimum.

Oh ew.

I hate the assumption that the woman reading this is selfish, and that she always puts herself first. When even a baby understanding of feminism is that women are not raised that way.

I do like to be nice to the person I am with, but overindulging men is a recipe to have him leave the relationship because "he's overwhelmed."

I like to treat my fiance on occasions but I feel like to say I'm "spoiling him" is a bit much. I'm pretty sure if I told him I wanted to "spoil" him on occasions he'd feel weird about it.