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Is it wrong that I blocked a former crush off of my social media because he got engaged?
I don't see point of us being friends because 1) whenever I talked about my dating horror stories, he would freak out & think I was talking about him, 2) his fiancée would go on a tagging spree on facebook, & 3) we weren't really friends, & 4) he was getting possessive over who, what, or how I was doing things in my life. (I caught him reading my reddit's comments.)
Why in the hell would he get engaged but still want to keep tabs on me?
He enjoys the attention that strokes his ego knowing you consider him a former/current crush. (Friendly reminder, men do not respect women who chase.)
He demonstrates possessiveness bc he can, you allow it and it buoys his self-esteem. He likes thinking of you as an optional side piece and wants to maintain that.
You did the right thing
You did the kindest thing you could for yourself, him, and his fiance: out of sight, out of mind.
Tbh when you said you blocked him because he got engaged I was already on your side. Treat social media in a way that benefits you and if you dont wanna see something you dont have to.
After you added all the other stuff I am 1000% convinced you are right lol.
Scrotes are always wannabe fuckboys. They will keep all their exes contact information, social media's, old pictures, and keep tabs out for you, even asking about you from other people. (One of my exes will "run into" my parents and keeps asking in detail about me since he's been blocked and deleted)
Scrotes always want backup options - doesn't matter if it's for sex. They always want sex but even seeing your name in their phone is an ego stroke. Any attention they could possibly get is an ego stroke.
What you did was the right thing. It's the respectful and mature thing keeping his fiancee in mind. He really needs to be the one to not stalk /keep options open on other women and I'm glad you're not even giving him that opportunity.