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I'm turning 30 in a few weeks and have been doing a lot of introspection. I've been focusing on decentering men and have been single AF as a result of it for years now. I think I have grown tremendously, at least mentally and emotionally. I haven't really grown much in my career and have been struggling with feeling stuck, but I am thankful to be paying the bills and keeping my shit together.
I tend to relate to older women and don't really have any friends my own age. I've kind of gotten used to just living life alone. I'm trying to get comfortable with the reality that I may be alone for the rest of my life. I'm just so tired of constantly being in survival mode.
What advice would you older ladies have for a woman approaching her 30s?
I'm in my late 30s, and I'll add that if you've been blocking and deleting scrotes in your 20s, continue doing so in your 30s. Scrotes abound in all age brackets, but the average quality of single men in their 30s will take a nosedive. Fewer HVM will be single and available; the leftover single men are truly despicable, because they're the ones who can't get a date/wife even in a patriarchy that encourages women to marry the first half-decent man they meet.
Prepare to block and delete like there's no tomorrow.